Is this drugs?

geoffky

stir_crazy wrote: »

I worked with a young woman who shared a (single) bed with her boyfriend who regularly got so drunk that he wet the bed in his sleep. So yes it could be the drink.

You should of seen the army down the Falklands..:cool: On one troopship 90% of the mattresses had been swamped and had to be dumped..
Squaddies and alcohol do not mix...

lilymay1

An old University boyfriend of mine used to do both when he got drunk. Filthy and disgusting but he genuinely had no idea he was doing it.

Saturnalia

Surely if he had eaten something off, or been given laxative, he'd have messed where he stood, messed in his clothes, or fallen asleep and accidentally done it in his bed? He wouldn't have had the time to open up handbags and pull down his pants to drop it in there!

Sorry I don't know what on earth to suggest you do about it, apart from the kicking him out after he has cleaned the place thoroughly and paid for anything that needs replacing.

meritaten

I was thinking it sounds more like a skinful and a suspect takeaway. tbh - that is just as bad as drugs if he really cant remember. I am also wondering how on earth no-one heard him! he MUST have been stumbling about knocking into things!

I cant think offhand of any drugs which cause the 'poos'!

pimento

Caitlin_Bree wrote: »

Was there any conflict before this? .. Sounds like a dirty protest.

I thought this. Alcohol lowers your inhibitions. This sounds like the alcohol gave him the courage to do what he wouldn't do sober. Making a protest.

System

Ive been so drunk ive got undressed ready for bed and put my clothes outside on the doormat.:o

Not long after My Mother and brother moved out of the family home i remember my brother forgetting he had moved out and came back drunk as a skunk. Oh and yes, he'd messed himself.

Ever tried chucking a full grown man in the bath when he was drunk? Well i didnt obviously but hubby did. There was no way i was having that sort of mess in my house. i did sling his clothes in the washer and dryer and did i give him a load of abuse next morning!

Mankysteve

**professor~yaffle** wrote: »

Are you saying he got so paralytic he was incontinent, or was he deliberately defecating on the stairs and in your mum's handbag and purse? Sorry to be crass, just wondering what's happened.

Anyway, it doesn't sound like typical drunken shenanigans to me, but I could be wrong.

There a story at my old uni that lass on a residential the year before me, made a mess of a bathroom, her suitcase and a room mates. Suitcase on an acholic Bender

Savvy_Sue

meritaten wrote: »

I am also wondering how on earth no-one heard him! he MUST have been stumbling about knocking into things!

Years ago, when DH and I were not long married but still living in a shared house, we got up one morning and wondered why washing on the clothes airers had been re-arranged, and why someone's towel was a darker shade than we remembered it.

Later that day, we discovered that one of our housemates had come home in the early hours, not quite made it to the toilet before up-chucking, and had then spent the next couple of hours clearing up after himself, put a load of washing on, waited for it to finish and hung it all up again. Unfortunately something dark had got into the mix, and he'd used a hotter wash than was wise, to remove all traces of his misdemeanours.

No-one had heard a thing ...

[Deleted User]

O gosh it's really bad, but some of the things people have seen/done really make me laugh!

There is a problem that he is not working and has now finished education and my mother is telling him what to do to resolve this, as some mothers do!

He has never been a big drinker really until recently, last year he was beaten so bad that he broke lots of bones in his face and again we don't really know what happened there and the Police said in short that it was his own fault.

It appears now he is drinking too much, which is not often and only when he goes out, maybe once every 2 weeks? But again nothing like this before and certainly no mess before!

All of the handbag items had to go, the normal lipbarm and all that sort of thing and some money that was also in the bag.

He hasn't appeared from his bedroom and was rude to me when I tried to talk to him about it.

He said he hadn't done anything, however his bed proved the case.

I think I would die of shame! Thanks again all

HappyMJ

assj wrote: »

All of the handbag items had to go, the normal lipbarm and all that sort of thing and some money that was also in the bag.

Why chuck the money? It can be sterilized in bleach and given to the bank. It's probably no more dirtier than it was previously anyway....