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Is this drugs?
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In Children this type of behaviour can be an indication of sexual abuse.
Could it be that something untoward has happened to him in the company of these "friends"?still raining0 -
But that wouldn't cause you to mess everywhere. If you are caught short you'd do it in your trousers, or wherever you take them off, not in handbags/ on stairs etc?
It could, if you combine laxatives with a skinful of booze. Or it could be a skinful and a dodgy kebab.
I once woke in the middle of the night after a night out to see my ex squatting in the wardrobe, I asked what she was doing and she said in a sarky voice "having a pee alright!" I didnt mind as it was her wardrobe :rotfl:0 -
In Children this type of behaviour can be an indication of sexual abuse.
Could it be that something untoward has happened to him in the company of these "friends"?
One of the men I know that does it has PTSD, ex forces, so I would agree about it possibly being related to past trauma.
Alternatively it could simply be the fact that he was leathered ...0 -
All I can say is ewwwwwewwwwewwww
I hope the family have made him clear up and replace all said items that are soiled. Yuck.0 -
He just got bolloxed out of his mind..Time for a raincheck...It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.0 -
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Oh my god I would be horrified if an adult, which at 19 is what your brother is, used my home as a toilet and my personal possessions like bog roll. He was clearly out of his mind, though unless you found drug related items on him or his bed, I wouldn't automatically jump to the conclusion that his vile behaviour was linked to drugs. If he were paraletic on booze he could behave in the same mindless way.
Your poor mum, no wonder she was so upset. I hope as soon as he was anywhere near sober she made your brother clean his filth up by himself.The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.0 -
Drink, drugs or mental illness can do this. Opiates cause constipation, and withdrawal can see anal incontinence as part of that - and alcohol can lead to inappropriate behaviour coupled with loss of bowel control. But the most common diagnosis I saw in people doing this was of mental illness.
And I would not be able to put up with it - whoever it was, their stuff would be in binbags in the front garden already. If nothing else, because taking away the easy option of pretending it didn't happen means they will have to deal with the consequences themselves, which could push them to seeking help.I could dream to wide extremes, I could do or die: I could yawn and be withdrawn and watch the world go by.Yup you are officially Rock n Roll0 -
Or he was that plastered that he did it anywhere and you really don't give a toss where you do it when your intoxicated.0
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Or he was that plastered that he did it anywhere and you really don't give a toss where you do it when your intoxicated.
That's what I think. Still a disgusting animal to do that though. I don't know how this thread started as is he on drugs to people suggesting sexual abuse, PTSD, mental health problems etc...
He was raging drunk, he didn't care what happened as he was so drunk and should now pay the price of his actions. Clean up floors etc.... And replace all towels, handbag, purse and even carpets if need be.
It will serve him right if he can't afford to go out for months after this incident and hopefully he will never ever so anything like it again.
Filthy disgusting beast.0
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