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what did you get married in?

where did you choose to have your wedding and why?




poll above :)

where did you choose to have your wedding in? 172 votes

church
31% 55 votes
manor house/country retreat
9% 17 votes
registry office
37% 64 votes
other
20% 36 votes
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  • MortgageMamma
    MortgageMamma Posts: 6,686 Forumite
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    Can I vote twice?

    My first wedding was in a church as my partner was a devout catholic

    My second wedding was in a registry office

    But I had two very nice frocks, and thats what matters lol

    I dont know where my third wedding will be, I'm hoping I can marry someone abroad this time
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  • lee8040
    lee8040 Posts: 554 Forumite
    Can I vote twice?

    My first wedding was in a church as my partner was a devout catholic

    My second wedding was in a registry office

    But I had two very nice frocks, and thats what matters lol

    I dont know where my third wedding will be, I'm hoping I can marry someone abroad this time

    dont know if you can vote twice.

    why did you choose registry office for the 2nd time?
  • Iona_Penny
    Iona_Penny Posts: 700 Forumite
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    I married in church as I had always gone there as a child. But that was when I was very young and over the years my questioning of the Christian (and all other) faiths means that would not be my answer now. I think this survey will be not be taking account of when the marriage happened ie: I think church weddings were much more the norm 20+ years ago.
  • Inactive
    Inactive Posts: 14,509 Forumite
    I got married in my suit.. ;)
  • djtonyb
    djtonyb Posts: 629 Forumite
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    I got married in a conservatory between 2 victorian townhouses.

    DH was divorced so no church wedding. We did however have 3 vicars of different demoninations at the wedding and reception lol
    Fat and proud lol
  • Mics_chick
    Mics_chick Posts: 12,014 Forumite
    Iona_Penny wrote: »
    I married in church as I had always gone there as a child. But that was when I was very young and over the years my questioning of the Christian (and all other) faiths means that would not be my answer now. I think this survey will be not be taking account of when the marriage happened ie: I think church weddings were much more the norm 20+ years ago.

    I don't know when the wedding laws were relaxed but you couldn't marry in a country house when I got married...

    If you're referring to trends then I think they will sort of even themselves out. My uncle & auntie got married in a register office in the late sixties coz they couldn't afford a big do and so did my grandparents during the 1940s...
    You should never call somebody else a nerd or geek because everybody (even YOU !!!) is an
    "anorak" about something whether it's trains, computers, football, shoes or celebs :p :rotfl:
  • Mics_chick
    Mics_chick Posts: 12,014 Forumite
    Inactive wrote: »
    I got married in my suit.. ;)
    You're not the only one who wondered this when I read the title question... does it mean venue or clothes :o :rotfl:
    You should never call somebody else a nerd or geek because everybody (even YOU !!!) is an
    "anorak" about something whether it's trains, computers, football, shoes or celebs :p :rotfl:
  • robnye
    robnye Posts: 5,411 Forumite
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    church - 20 years ago this august...... :D
    smile --- it makes people wonder what you are up to.... ;) :cool:
  • Hapless_2
    Hapless_2 Posts: 2,619 Forumite
    Registry office 10 yrs ago, I angered my mother by refusing a church wedding. Even though for 10 yrs previously I had been telling her I was not Christian!
    The "Bloodlust" Clique - Morally equal to all. Member 10
    grocery challenge...Budget £420

    Wk 1 £27.10
    Wk 2 £78.06
    Wk 3 £163.06
    Wk 4
  • Mark7799
    Mark7799 Posts: 4,805 Forumite
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    Married in a country hotel - DW, her 2xDS & my parents were the party. Did thsi on a Wednesday then came home and had a big party for everyone on the following Saturday.
    Gwlad heb iaith, gwlad heb galon
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