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Is this so wrong?

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  • ognum
    ognum Posts: 4,879 Forumite
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    You are the only one who knows your intention, only you know if it's right or wrong by your moral code!
  • geelamch
    geelamch Posts: 243 Forumite
    Least it'll last longer lol
  • JCD_Capulet
    JCD_Capulet Posts: 1,441 Forumite
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    geelamch wrote: »
    i do these things in all honesty to encourage "bedroom gymnastics".
    geelamch wrote: »
    3)is this being kind and thoughtful

    No it's not being thoughtful. It's manipulating.

    Here's an idea, instead of doing things around the house in a bid to win the approval of your unfortunate Mrs and get the leg over as a reward for being a good boy, why not do things around the house because it's YOUR house too, take some pride in your home and understand it's not her place to do everything or throw you your bone when you lift a pinkie once in a while.


    I think most people with slovenly partners don't find them sexy any more, and that's usually when they stumble across someone tidy, sexy and with more pride

    Just sayin' ;)
    Debt free since 2014 - now saving for a mortgage deposit :heart2:
    This time I'm on top of it! We live and learn :coffee:
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    edited 4 April 2013 at 3:23PM
    So beautiful I could cry. Who said romance is dead ;)

    Nothing wrong with trying your luck.

    Go and buy some flowers, reinforce the chandeliers and have fun.

    Lets hope she doesn't arrive home with a headache :D
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • Bazey
    Bazey Posts: 8,230 Forumite
    Ask her to toss your salad.
  • Mrs_Imp
    Mrs_Imp Posts: 1,001 Forumite
    Is just a salad going to give her enough energy? ;)

    Good point. Get some treacle sponge too. I love treacle sponge and custard (are you reading this Mr Imp??)
  • CharlieRabbit01
    CharlieRabbit01 Posts: 1,246 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    I'm not sure I understand these women who have sex with their partners as a prize for being good and cooking dinner or doing the dishes etc.

    What ever happened to just doing it for the fun of it?
  • Joons
    Joons Posts: 629 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    Dearie me, is that what you have to do to get your congugal rights??? So you yourself isn't enough for her then lol.
  • Alikay
    Alikay Posts: 5,147 Forumite
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    What ever happened to just doing it for the fun of it?

    Getting dinner prepared for you or a couple of extra chores done as well means double the fun :D
  • geelamch
    geelamch Posts: 243 Forumite
    To some of the porters on here , relax and chill
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