Nice people thread part 8 - worth the wait

Nikkster

lostinrates wrote: »

I am argues sing that's me not nikkster?




I feel such tenuous grip on who I thought I was these days that I think this is for me. It's a speck in the ocean of what is wrong with the way I look, but its something I can do something about. It's a control thing.

Btw, zag, five two diet I have been chuffed with, definitely losing 'size' but weighed myself and have actually put on weight. Whether its slowing down the inevitable, or whether its fluid or what I don't know.

In any case, I feel ok on it, and that's health wise, important too.

I've definitely lost size (and some chin:)), but not seen the scales move so much. If I had to pick one, I would rather it was that way round.

silvercar

LydiaJ wrote: »

I wish there was some hypothetical way for the email to get "accidentally" forwarded to the hypothetical wife, which would be what the hypothetical emailer deserves.

The temptation to post the email on facebook, with a comment like, "I received this, clearly by mistake: anyone at tonights "do" feel it could have been meant for them?"

But that would be mean.:D

Easiest thing is to ignore, though I might be tempted to email back, to ensure the message has got through that you are not interested. Just in case the hypothetical emailer intends sending 12 red roses tomorrow.

Nikkster

lostinrates wrote: »

Oh god really? What about dermal fillers?

Apologies for the source, not my first choice of science: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2315979/Women-using-Botox-stopped-working-Users-develop-antibodies-making-treatment-effective.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

lostinrates

Nikkster wrote: »

Apologies for the source, not my first choice of science: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2315979/Women-using-Botox-stopped-working-Users-develop-antibodies-making-treatment-effective.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

Ok.....

You get ten yearsish. That's ok. If I am still here I will be ready for first facelift by then.

chewmylegoff

Nikkster wrote: »

Apologies for the source, not my first choice of science: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2315979/Women-using-Botox-stopped-working-Users-develop-antibodies-making-treatment-effective.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

I'm surprised that daily mail journalists found the time to write that article given how much time they spend producing articles about tamara ecclestone.

Still, they got it right on MMR so we should probably pay attention....wait a minute.

Nikkster

silvercar wrote: »

The temptation to post the email on facebook, with a comment like, "I received this, clearly by mistake: anyone at tonights "do" feel it could have been meant for them?"

But that would be mean.:D

Easiest thing is to ignore, though I might be tempted to email back, to ensure the message has got through that you are not interested. Just in case the hypothetical emailer intends sending 12 red roses tomorrow.

Ha! But couldn't do that unless I could be sure the situation wasn't at all my fault. Clearly something gave the wrong idea.
Address not known, should be safe. Chances are in the cold, sober light of day there is no longer an ongoing issue anyway.

vivatifosi

chewmylegoff wrote: »

Precisely. I, for instance, receive about 10 emails of this type a week. Water off a duck's back these days.

Sorry about that George. It was me and nine of my sockies.

michaels

lostinrates wrote: »

I am argues sing that's me not nikkster?




I feel such tenuous grip on who I thought I was these days that I think this is for me. It's a speck in the ocean of what is wrong with the way I look, but its something I can do something about. It's a control thing..

We love you for who you are in here not what you look like.

Moreover I don't think there is anything wrong with the way you look. (I have an instant aversion to people who judge others based on appearance)

HAMISH_MCTAVISH

lostinrates wrote: »

aesthetic doctor

I keep telling Mrs McT she has the body of an 18 year old.

So she should probably give it back before she gets it wrinkly....:D

lostinrates

michaels wrote: »

We love you for who you are in here not what you look like.


thats so kind:o
Moreover I don't think there is anything wrong with the way you look. (I have an instant aversion to people who judge others based on appearance)

I feel there is a lot wrong with the way I look, it gets me down a lot. Probably because by virtue of my first career and expectations it was quite important. I don't care what people look like, i like people not their shells, but I do think I make some judgements or assumptions on some things.

But thank you, your kind words have moved me, a lot.