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Wellyboots6

I do struggle with trust, and he knows this as we were friends when I was going through some horrible stuff with an ex who was cheating on me.

I am aware I struggle with trust which is why I won't go snooping through his phone, set up a fake pof account etc as I think this would make me worse.

Maybe I am too open though, as I tend to tell him what texts say if I get them whilst we are together. I suppose I see it as being polite if I am going to read a text in front of him.

shiny76

katy721 wrote: »

I do struggle with trust, and he knows this as we were friends when I was going through some horrible stuff with an ex who was cheating on me.

If I was in his position, know that, I'd be doing all I could to reassure you. He almost seems to be doing the opposite and playing on your insecurities!

Wellyboots6

shiny76 wrote: »

He almost seems to be doing the opposite and playing on your insecurities!

This!

This is what makes me not trust him! The pof thing could be explained, and so could the texts, but maybe this is where the gut feeling is coming from.

elletee

I personally wouldn't worry about it ... he could have just been logging on to see if people he used to talk to where still there. If he's now deleted the account I'd let it go. Although the text thing does sound a bit dodge!

I guess you have to decide whether you trust him or not. If not, then everything he does is going to be suspicious and you're going to end up driving yourself mad. There are good honest men out there (if you find one, find out if he has a brother for me will you?!) so don't stick with one who is potentially playing games.

Good luck!!