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Weekly Flylady Thread 4th March 2013

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  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,467 Forumite
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    Evening all, well I was up reasonably bright and early this morning..lol. And it was so nice to see the sun shining that I put my dark pink washing out on the line to dry :D It was so lovely to see it on the line :D

    Skint healing vibes for you sweetie, and a gentle hug.
    Kazw gentle hugs to you too honey, hope you are okay after your car shunt. Hope the police caught up with the guy that did it and give him what he deserves, especially for driving with failed brakes..bet you he hasn't got insurance either, or an MOT.
    Mumto5 hope you had a good time at Westfield today :D Hope you didn't spend too much...
    LameWolf wrote: »
    (((HUGS))) Natty it's a horrible feeling, I know only too well. When they wrote to me, they had a totally wrong phone number for me, so Mr LW called them, and also told them I'm phone-phobic so they were NOT to call me, he'd give them his mobile number. Advance warning, the form, when you get it, is very daunting. They gave me a month to fill it in and get it back to them, I assume you'll get a similar time to do yours; take your time with it, and if you can, get some help. Mr LW filled mine in, and under the bit where it said "if you are filling this form in for someone, why are you doing it for them" (not quoted precisely, but that was what they were asking, iyswim) he put something to the effect of "My wife cannot hold a pen for long enough to fill out your narrative boxes, also the form was too stressful for her to cope with".
    You'll be fine, Natty; you know where my pm box is if you need a friend - I believe Dragon is well-versed in these wretched forms, too.:o
    Many thanks LW, I will say that I sort of lost yesterday. And yes I'm ashamed to say I didn't get showered or do my hair yesterday, I just got dressed and that wasn't until 6.30pm. But I made up for it today and had a long soak in the bath. Anyway went to the Dr's and that was a total mess up.. I had asked to see my dr and it was confirmed over the phone, but when I went in there they said it was with another dr. Was told that my dr could actually fit me in, so sat and waited but then the original dr called me.. Well as you can imagine I did not do too well at all and spent most of the appointment in tears, which was not conclusive to trying to explain to him what I wanted. Bless him he was brilliant and the appt actually lasted just over half an hour :A Talked to him about everything that has been going on, how I am feeling and other stuff. The upshot of it is he is putting me forward for secondary care psychotherapy, has increased my antidepressants to the maximum dosage you can have and has sent me home with a letter to DH to request he takes charge of my medications as I am not stable enough to keep them myself...:eek: Told me not to worry about the forms, I have enough going to on to back me up etc.. Which was something the chemist/pharmacist also said when I was in there. They gave me a lovely cup of tea while waiting for my meds, I think they saw I was still upset plus they also know me too..so that helps.
    pigpen wrote: »
    I may be going to try my hand at replacing the kitchen ceiling.. we have a bathroom leak
    Piggers we lowered our kitchen ceiling instead of replacing it, which was actually easier. If you can fix the leak maybe this could be considered..it's less messy :D Although you do have to have very high ceilings, we have 8ft ones and lowering it by 2 inches has hardly made a difference.

    Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Basic Flying

    Wipe down all worktops, remove anything that shouldn't be there.
    Vacuum floor, mop if hard floor - don't forget pick up anything that shouldn't be there and rehome.
    Deep Cleaning
    Clean kitchen cupboard doors, don't forget kickboards.
    Clean kitchen window making it sparkle, don't forget to clear the windowsill of unwanted gumph!!
    Decluttering
    HHC - put on some lively music and have a bop around while doing this.
    Clear out any cupboards that are getting overfilled with gibble, rehome if possible if not bin!


    Tuesday - Living Room, stairs, landing and hallway
    Basic Flying

    Vacuum floor, remember to pick up anything that doesn't belong here.
    Dust, even if around everything.
    15 minutes hotspot
    Deep Cleaning
    Wipe all electricals, light switches, light bulbs and anything else that is shiney :D
    Wash any smelly throws, cushions/covers even dog toys if needed.
    Decluttering
    Get a bag or box, go around collecting things that are not in the place they should be, then put them back where they should be. You could delegate and give everyone their own misplaced things to deal with :D
    Sort through any magazines or paperwork lying around. Any that you don't want/need maybe you could give to the Dr's or Dentists near you.

    Wednesday - Bathroom and Study/PC Area
    Basic Flying

    Clean mirrors
    Hoover floors.
    Deep Cleaning
    Wash bath mat
    Decluttering
    Check through those bottles.. what can be flung/decanted/and do you not need to buy until next Christmas?
    Delete 10 links in your favourites which you no longer use or don't work.
    Clear a mega hotspot!.. shred it.. and fling it.. or just burn it!
    Mortgage Free as of 20.9.17
    Declutter challenge 2023, 2024 🏅 🏅⭐️⭐️
    Declutter Challenge 2025
    DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
  • bossymoo
    bossymoo Posts: 6,924 Forumite
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    Yowsers.

    Hugs to burnt and bumped flyladies, do take it easy, this is a marathon not a sprint! More of a meander in my case...

    Had lots of paid stuff to deal with so not an awful lot happening fly wise. Also took DS swimming - inlaws usually take him so my first time, proud mummy moment. Given the football debacle, I wasn't expecting great things but OMG he just went in, happy as larry, and got stuck in. I sat in the gallery. He waved once or twice but mostly listened to the instructor, and did lots of floating on his back, which he was told he was really good at. Aww.

    Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Basic Flying - done.

    Tuesday - Living Room, stairs, landing and hallway
    Basic Flying - done.
    Check where important documents like passports, birth certificates, driving licences, medical cards are and make a note of where they are and if any need replacing, changing etc - done

    Right, off to chase DD back to bed. Remind me to tell nursery no more naps for her :mad:
    Bossymoo

    Away with the fairies :beer:
  • decogecko
    decogecko Posts: 763 Forumite
    Hi all

    Natty big hug to you, hope you're feeling a bit calmer now, I'm pleased your Dr is the understanding type.
    Skint wow you're amazing, but please take it easy before it gets too much.


    Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Basic Flying
    :):)
    Deep Cleaning:)
    Decluttering:)


    Tuesday - Living Room, stairs, landing and hallway
    Basic Flying
    :)
    Deep Cleaning
    Wipe all electricals, light switches, light bulbs and anything else that is shiney :D
    Wash any smelly throws, cushions/covers even dog toys if needed.
    Decluttering:)


    Am willing my sore throat to foxtrot oscar - I hate being ill, there seems to be a lot of it around at the moment. May have a medicinal ;) wine then bed.

    Have a nice night all

    Deco x
  • froddington
    froddington Posts: 6,697 Forumite
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    Evening! Since leaving work, I have been to the parking office to get my new permit, bought a little gift for a pupil who is leaving on Thursday, put washing away, cooked dinner, washed up, done a couple of bits of the list and bought a ticket to see Green Day!! :D

    skinty - ouch! Gentle hugs x

    Natty - hugs hun; hope things pick up for you soon x

    Coping vibes for all those dealing with horrid forms x

    Monday - Kitchen

    Basic Flying
    Vacuum floor

    Deep Cleaning
    Wipe and shine kitchen sink

    Tuesday - Living Room, stairs, landing and hallway

    Basic Flying
    Vacuum floor, remember to pick up anything that doesn't belong here.
    Dust, even if around everything.

    Deep Cleaning
    Wipe all electricals, light switches, light bulbs and anything else that is shiney

    Wednesday - Bathroom and PC Area

    Basic Flying
    Clean toilet, sink and bath
    Clean mirrors
    Hoover floors.
    Dust desk, remove anything that shouldn't be there.

    Deep Cleaning
    Wash bath mat
    Clean the toilet bowl on the outside and the floor in front of it
    Wipe keyboard and mouse

    Decluttering
    Clear a mega hotspot!.. shred it.. and fling it.. or just burn it!
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • dancemum
    dancemum Posts: 2,562 Forumite
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    Hugs to all x

    Time to put the kitchen to bed as football is going on a bit.
  • mummyyof5
    mummyyof5 Posts: 1,839 Forumite
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    Lots done today...filled car to brim and did tip run..huge frog for OH...we have lots of decluttering to do so more tip runs on cards

    Hoovered all downstairs including under settees

    Did food shop...did a tins stock up too

    Cleaned hob

    Washed LR throws...did 2 more loads of washing ...all dried outside

    Made tea and DW x3,,,cleaned all kitchen through again

    S@S bathroom...bathed myself and 2 LOs....DD2 has bathed and DS1 and DS2 have showered....will need a towel load put through tomorrow lol..

    Tomorrow will mostly be spent emptying the huge shed we have and sorting through loads of OHs[STRIKE] junk[/STRIKE]...tools,..what he is keeping will need to be taken to mums for storage and more hopefully for tip....all this is more work towards the new boiler being fitted...doubt if I will manage anything from list :(

    Also need to make Shepherds Pie and veg for tea

    Gentle hugs for Natty,Skint and Kazwookie xxx
    Feeding 6 Adults 1 Teen a 8 year old with hollow legs and a very fussy 5 year old. Also 3 cats and 3 fishies
    To include all Food,Toiletries and Petfood.
  • shopaholic232
    shopaholic232 Posts: 278 Forumite
    edited 7 March 2013 at 12:19AM
    Hi my list updated for tomorrow

    Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Basic Flying
    Deep Cleaning
    Wipe and shine kitchen sink, don't forget the taps and the gunky area at the bottom of the taps - I want you to see your faces in those shiney taps
    Clean kitchen window making it sparkle, don't forget to clear the windowsill of unwanted gumph!!

    Deep Cleaning
    Tidy up coats, shoes, umbrellas and bags - rehome if not needed downstairs.
    Get a bag or box, go around collecting things that are not in the place they should be, then put them back where they should be. You could delegate and give everyone their own misplaced things to deal

    Wednesday - Bathroom and Study/PC Area *hate bathroom day *
    Deep Cleaning
    Wipe keyboard and mouse - these can get really germy so very important
  • Hi every one i am in after a long time now . about a year but need to be in and organised . i am pregnant and my house is messy due to i am lazy, but doing a bit well now not slept whole night but off to cleaning now instead of bed wish me luck lolx:rotfl::rotfl: :rotfl:
    £2012 in 2012 challenge £0.00/£2012---NSD15/15.
  • Jazee
    Jazee Posts: 9,455 Forumite
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    Morning all. Up early again. Going off list now as I need to dust BR, will then have a nice soak in the bath before doing today's list as I need to be in a relaxed frame of mind to tackle all the new systems I'll be building at the paid stuff today. Mon/Tues lists are up to date.

    Catch you all later.
    Spend less now, work less later.
  • skint_breeder_5
    skint_breeder_5 Posts: 1,042 Forumite
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    Got myself in a right tangle not been to sleep yet- today is the plague of raining frogs of biblical proportions. Last night I got out my ID and empty meds boxes out ready (if I get in a state and loose my meds while I am out it will be a nightmare) found the ESA appointment letter and my appointment is 9am :eek::eek::eek: not 10am as I had mistakenly remembered from when I looked at the letter 3 weeks ago when it arrived.

    Hit myself with a tonne of frogs remembering a vague thought that I not quite formulated properly when the letter arrived about arranging and finding extra cash for DS AND Skint Baby childcare to go to appointment.

    Not to mention to comply with Ofsted Skint Baby would need to be registered with the nursery before she could be left there, and she has not even had a trial session or so much as a cuddle from the nursery nurses or SENCO that work there. Or the practical things like expressed milk and Skint Baby is still suffering nippl£ confusion with a bottle so feeding her is not going to be a happy experience for her.

    99.9% of me wants to pull an abort and deal with the economic fallout when they stop my payments later, but the sensible 0.1% of me realises there is no leeway on the money merry go round to deal with it later and end up defaulting on something (and then choosing which one or more to default on with the least long term consequences)

    So taking the two young Skints to the appointment is my only option, although the ESA booklet says not to take them.

    Right, first order of flying - get some tea down my neck and get Skint Baby changed and fed now, and see if I can get out of the house by 7.30 :eek::eek::eek:
    The cold never bothered me anyway
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