Trying for a Baby Part 9

picklekin

hope it goes well Loveactually, its not nice but its over really fast and everyone was super nice to me.

bigmomma I used to get my hopes up loads and loads but as time has gone on its lessened a bit, I realise we are in for the long haul now.

Sitting in the TWW here, we BDd a lot at the right times this month but I'm pretty sure AF will be here as usual. Have managed to talk to other half about adoption in a serious way, its now something he will consider (I likened it to the day we got our puppy, and that seemed to cheer him up oddly, not "ours" but soon became OURS..). It still scares the hell outta me though.

chocoholic_chick

Morning ladies

Now 16 DPO, spotting has stopped, tested last 3 days, all BFN I just don't know what's going on with my body. My LP has increased over the months from 12 days back around December/January time to 14 then 15 and now 16?! Surely this can't be right?? I'm now wondering if I'm getting false positive OPK tests and so I'm not ovulating when I think I am? But all the signs point to it with my CM and it drying up a few days after I get the positive OPK.

I too am one with a hubby who's extremely laid back and has the attitude don't worry it'll happen when it happens :mad:. Which yes I hope it will, but I want it to happen NOW ( She says stamping her feet )

picklekin

Remember that an OPK just detects a surge, you can ovulate up to 48 hours after a +ve.

credit_crunch

BFN for me yesterday but still no AF
I am trying so hard to remain optimistic as I really thought this would be the one for us!
I have a slight niggle, low down on the right hand side, so maybe thats AF on her way. I am hopeless at symptoms with AF - I have no idea what my tell tale signs are !!!!!!! :mad:

chocoholic_chick

picklekin wrote: »

Remember that an OPK just detects a surge, you can ovulate up to 48 hours after a +ve.

I got my +OPK on 24th August, FF plotted ovulation the day after so I've just gone off that. I've been using FF since January so it should be consistent in that it plots ovulation about 24 hours after my positive OPK which still means my LP is getting longer :huh:

Linz4383

hi not posted as nothing new is happening here! have been reading tho! hugs to everyone that needs them! seems a pretty rubbish time at the moment defo agree that we are in need of some BFP!!!
nothing new here, AF arrived and she went so now waiting for ovulation (ff predicts next week) so well see what happens this time! on the upside of AF making her appearance is that we are goin away for the weekend for my birthday managed to get my DDs dad to have her so me and my fiance (i love sayin that lol) can have some time on our own which shud be nice hopefully get lots of Bding in as ovulation shud be due around that time! fingers crossed

samtoby

:oSophiasmum- I am too nervous to even consider testing. Does that make sence - I am worried about the emotions if it was negative which I would fully expect - I know I would be an emotional wreck if it was positive. (And how lucky would that be 7 weeks after loosing my baby.)

I am sure AF will rack up.

jammy26

Some spotting and cramping so I suspect AF will arrive tonight or tomorrow, am feeling really down as I see people all around me having babies with ease and we are on cycle 8 and nothing! I have just ordered a CBFM in the hopes that might help a little. I know in the grand scheme of things we haven't been trying long but I can't bear the look of disappointment when I tell OH my period has arrived again :-(

chocoholic_chick

Well AF has finally turned up, so a mixture of relief and disappointment.

Could I be updated to CD1 please

picklekin

*hugs for CD1*