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Trying for a Baby Part 9

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  • HSG tomorrow :eek::eek::eek:
    Getting worried
    Saving goal for BTL mortgage - 28600 / 60000 ( July 2021) , 37600/60000 (December 2021) , 39300 / 60000 (august 2022) , 41000/60000 ( January 2023)
  • purcy81
    purcy81 Posts: 571 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Hugs sophiasmum it really is a bit carp sometimes isn't it. At least she'll be off soon and you won't have to see her all the time xx

    The doctor won't help because over the year we've been ttc I've had 2 mc so we're stuck in a kind of ttc limbo as we can't get help ttc as it seems we can manage that bit and we can't get help with mc as they only class it as recurrent (i.e. worthy of tests and help) if you have 3 :( so we just have to keep plodding along. It's really frustrating but theres not much we can do about it.

    Good luck tomorrow love actually I hope everything goes well for you xx

    hugs to all x
  • Does anyone else start to get their hopes up after ovulation but before AF? I know this sounds daft as obviously people do, but like REALLY get their hopes up? Every month that AF arrives I am getting more down :(

    AF due this Saturday by my reckoning. SURE that she is going to arrive as if by bloo*y magic! :( Hubby will be working, DS1 will be at my parents and I am going to be sat at home, feeling like Sh*t. Basically.

    I have nobody to share this feeling with - hubby is still firmly in the "when it happens, it happens.... if it doesn't then thats just perhaps how its supposed to be." camp. Which is really relaxed and great and positive and all that apart from that I really would like him to seem SAD like I am when AF arrives... which is horrid because of course I love him and dont WANT him to be unhappy. He would be really happy etc if i got pg, but i just feel like he wont be UNhappy if i dont (if that makes sense?!)

    So you have a OH who seems to really just be too easy going and it comes across sometimes as not being "bothered".....? Or is it just lucky old me?! LOL! :cool: I know he would like a baby and all that.... i just dont feel that he feels as strongly and passionately and miserably as me! :A
    Baldrick, does it have to be this way? Our valued friendship ending with me cutting you up into strips and telling the prince that you walked over a very sharp cattle grid in an extremely heavy hat?
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Morning all

    Love actually hope your hsg goes well an try not to worry, easy said than done though.

    Purcy hugs for the tricky position your in with the lack if help.

    Big momma hugs to you to.
  • samtoby
    samtoby Posts: 2,438 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker PPI Party Pooper
    Morning everyone.

    AF still hasn't reared yet but sometimes my cycle is a tad late.

    I hope you all have a good day its all a bit :(

    xx
    3 Children - 2004 :heart2: 2014 :heart2: 2017 :heart2:
    Happily Married since 2016
  • Mrs_T_M
    Mrs_T_M Posts: 2,039 Forumite
    Winner of August BFP predictions (4): No one! Closest guesses (5): samtoby, MrsMuffin, and ruth26

    September Graduates:

    September BFP predictions
    without-a-paddle: 3
    chelseablue: 4
    Disney_Pluto: 4
    samtoby: 5
    picklekin: 5
    Mrs_T_M: 6
    Part Mouse: 6
    Loveactually: 6
    becsxxx: 6
    catloverbex: 7
    MrsMuffin: 7
    ashia: 7
    ruth26: 7
    kellykins: 7
    tia86: 8
    sophiasmum: 8
    chocoholic_chick: 8
    time2deal: 8
    purcy81: 8
    ttc39: 9
    tea lover: 54!!!

    Thread Graduates:
    fluffysox BFP 06/02/13
    toothfairy BFP 06/02/13
    Hopelass BFP 10/02/13
    MiffyMoo BFP 11/02/13
    Lemonmelon BFP 14/02/13
    maire BFP 19/02/13
    Trina BFP 20/02/13
    AngelMommy BFP 21/02/13
    TTC40 BFP 21/02/13
    Lilymay BFP 04/03/13
    Retepetsir BFP 05/03/13
    abis BFP 12/03/13
    amy_85 BFP 14/03/13
    vic3 BFP 23/03/13
    KScarlet BFP 26/03/13
    Optimistic_mummy BFP 16/04/13
    Lilymay BFP 20/04/13
    emylou BFP 21/04/13
    amyloofoo BFP 24/04/13
    BigZippy BFP 3/05/13
    Mincepiemonster BFP 7/05/13
    ejecoms BFP 18/05/13
    firefly BFP 22/05/13
    TeamLowe BFP 27/05/13
    Birdie85 BFP 2/6/13
    Becca BFP 26/6/13
    Faithhope BFP 26/6/13
    Kynthia BFP 27/6/13
    Lara44 BFP 29/6/13
    blondy24 BFP 4/7/13
    squ1rrel5 BFP 7/7/13
    thriftylass BFP 9/7/13
    Lannie Duck BFP 15/7/13
    sjlou BFP 16/7/13
    claire16c BFP 17/7/13
    faith2009uk BFP 29/7/13
    Katy29 BFP 7/8/13
    Debs0778 BFP 8/8/13
    twigpig BFP 14/8/13
    Elsie37 BFP 20/8/13
    Baby Dale
    26th January 2014 - Forever in our hearts
    :A
    Eli Gabriel 19th February 2015
    :j
  • Mrs_T_M
    Mrs_T_M Posts: 2,039 Forumite
    edited 10 September 2013 at 5:09PM
    Two week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD39 Disney_Pluto - 19DPO :cool:
    CD33 jammy26 - 16DPO :cool:
    CD?? Samtoby - 15DPO :cool:
    CD29 credit_crunch - 14DPO :cool:
    CD25 time2deal - 13DPO :cool:
    CD25 Chelseablue - 11DPO :cool:
    CD23 Mrs_T_ M – 9DPO :cool:
    CD26 becsxxx - 8DPO :cool:
    CD24 Purcy– 7DPO :cool:
    CD21 without-a-paddle - 7DPO :cool:
    CD21 Goodvibes* – 6DPO :cool:
    CD28 Sophiasmum - 5DPO :cool:
    CD18 Picklekin - 5DPO :cool:
    CD46 Slinky_Selina - 3DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone
    CD80 JoJoB - Awaiting ov :o
    CD71 any name will suffice - Awaiting ov :o
    CD65 atton- Awaiting ov :o
    CD59 skintchick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD58 paulashek - Awaiting ov :o
    CD50 Lemon Tree - Awaiting ov :o
    CD48 159 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD48 january23- Awaiting ov :o
    CD46 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD38 Clarebear2013 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD34 MrsMuffin - Awaiting ov :o
    CD32 Kalama -Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 Codemonkey – Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Carrot34 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD27 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 Angeltreats*- Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 Skint_Catt - Awaiting ov :o
    CD25 tea lover - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 Smookle - Awaiting ov :o
    CD19 LailaP - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Kellykins - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 BabyMad* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Gelly123 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 cwtw - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 tia86 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Skaps* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 lilmissmup - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 linz4383 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 sweaty betty - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Loveactually - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 ruth26 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Catloverbex - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 chocgirl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 lollypopswater- Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD6 PommeVerte - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 Chocoholic_chick - Awaiting ov :o

    TCD's own special list
    CD25 teaandcakeordeath- Awaiting next step

    Those we haven't heard from in a while
    MsTTC
    Tashatutuw
    KimLouise
    McRach
    Sapphire
    Alice31
    Vesper
    BeautyButterfly

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.
    Baby Dale
    26th January 2014 - Forever in our hearts
    :A
    Eli Gabriel 19th February 2015
    :j
  • Are you going to test Samtoby? - My cycle is completely erratic so I know sometimes its just better to hang on in there!

    Sorry Purcy - it seems very ironic that you cannot access help until 3 miscarriages. Am truly hoping your next pregnancy is your forever baby so that you don't have to have help x

    Big Momma - happens to me every month! & my DH actually quite similar to yours. He said last night as I talked about diets - "You could be pregnant anyway, wont matter" Me - "No Im not I don't think we bd at the right time" Him - "That's a load of rubbish - you are telling me we just by chance bd at the right time with previous 3 pregnancies"? No Im not!!! Ok - on the first one it was pure chance - but the following 2 were carefully calculated BD sessions!
    I sent him off to google ovulation!
    Good Luck - Love Actually & thinking of you PMouse as you are really not having a good time of it.
  • becsxxx
    becsxxx Posts: 802 Forumite
    Purcy - that must be so difficult for you. Hugs.

    Loveactually - hope it goes ok x
    .
  • Meh day 14 and no follies no change from fri. Dose will be uped on fri.
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