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Trying for a Baby Part 9

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  • Elsie37
    Elsie37 Posts: 233 Forumite
    Well spotting here so guessing AF is on her way. That's 16 months now - really fed up. Got our FS appointment in a couple of weeks so hope we can get some answers soon.

    Congrats to the bfps and hugs to any others in need xx
  • purcy81
    purcy81 Posts: 571 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited 18 July 2013 at 7:38PM
    hugs lolly sorry for imminent af xx

    hugs elsie I really hope your fs can give you some answers xx

    what an odd offer loulou. Men are such strange creatures aren't they!

    I'm just at home relaxing at the mo I've been very uncomfortable today with some af cramps combined with the sauna that is my office making me feel drained. Oh well almost the weekend!

    oh I have to tell you about what happened today as well its not really ttc related but it did give me a chuckle! The building I work in (think typical 1960/1970's ryvita council offices) is opposite a block of student flats and I kept hearing this strange noise which at first I thought was a dog whining. It started getting louder and at that point everyone else could hear it too and we realised someone in the flats must have left the window open as we could hear a woman enjoying herself very much! Oh it was so funny I'm talking full on moaning and "right there yes there" it was made even funnier by one of the ladies on our corridor walking past and muttering "its too hot for that today". lol

    hugs to all
  • sophiasmum
    sophiasmum Posts: 761 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Becs - one of my best friends announced her pregnancy a couple of weeks ago and I was jealous (despite the fact she has taken years trying). Hate myself for it - but Im finding it hard being with her at the moment.
    I too am on a never ending cycle - CD42 I think today, last month CD34 like yours Miskate? Hm. Odd. I was fine and regular til I miscarried at the end of March so am assuming it something to do with that and Ive not settled down yet. Im worrying I must admit - I don't know where I am at the moment. Just bought some expensive Clear Blue OPks to try and pin point ovulation next cycle as I bought cheapy ones this cycle and never got a positive! Though am now realising that this cycle is so long that I prob didn't test for long enough - just got frustrated and gave up. Too hot to BD for me anyway!
    Lol - Purcy - love that story!
  • loulou123
    loulou123 Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    ttc39 wrote: »
    Lou Lou - what an offer! Think it a bit creepy though lol

    I know I still can't imagine what the hell he was thinking...he seemed surprised I didn't think it was the fantastic idea he clearly did:eek:

    Worst thing is initially I thought he was joking so I played along with him - then realised he was serious!
  • PRINCESSX87
    PRINCESSX87 Posts: 969 Forumite
    Evening all,
    I'm wondering if I may join?

    My partner & I have been TTC for nearly 2 years & so far nothing has come of it.
    I have contacted my GP more than once about this issue and other than having a external scan (Sorry not sure of correct term) & a blood test, They have offered no other support.

    They have said that I might not be baby dancing enough because i'm on depression medications which results in a loss of sex drive.

    I've really convinced myself that I cannot have babies. Everyone around me has either gotten pregnant by just sneezing next to one other or, Has babies & continuous says to me...When you having children.

    I don't know about any of you, But I try and hide it & end up telling porkies like, Oh i'm too selfish for children at the moment.
    Inside it's killing me that I may never have children, Either naturally or because something might be wrong and the NHS will not test me or my partner further.

    I hope I haven't made myself sound like a mad women, Hopefully you bunch can understand better than anyone else.

    I look forward to reading your replies.

    P x
    Future goals:
    Become debt free.
    Beat Depression.
    Be happy & healthy
  • catloverbex
    catloverbex Posts: 236 Forumite
    Welcome Princess :wave:

    I think after 2 years TTC, your GP should be providing you more support and assistance. Sorry to hear that this has not been the case. Maybe you could track your bd dates and show this to your doctor to prove that you are bding enough despite the medication reducing your drive? Or try and find a better GP?

    You're not alone in feeling like everyone else gets pregnant so easily :o

    loulou :rotfl: I have no words...... Haha!

    Sophiasmum & Becs - I think we can all empathise with feeling like that :o

    Lolly & Elsie - big hugs xxxxx

    Purcy - :rotfl: hilarious! Oh to be a student again.... Best days ever! :)

    Nothing new from me. CD11 and a low on CBFM. Quite pleased as its too hot to bd! X
  • becsxxx
    becsxxx Posts: 802 Forumite
    Thanks guys, feel much better about it this evening as DH tells me "at least you can pump her for information on what happens next"! LOL.

    Welcome Princess.

    Sorry about the crazy cycle Sophiasmum.

    Loulou - YEEEECH - what was he thinking???!?
    .
  • Welcome Princess!

    If you see this could you mark me as cd1 please? Less spotting more full blown AF now.

    Hugs to everyone xx
    Baby on board - EDD 29th Sept
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Welcome princess. I hope your stays short.

    Xx
  • sophiasmum
    sophiasmum Posts: 761 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 19 July 2013 at 7:39AM
    CD1 ...Just when id given up - along it comes . .. Relieved to finally start new cycle and get on with ttc!
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