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Trying for a Baby Part 9

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  • Skint_Catt
    Skint_Catt Posts: 11,548 Forumite
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    Miskate wrote: »
    Skint - I am exactly the same. cd40 now, and every month it seems to get longer, although last month I got AF on cd34.

    Reasons why I am not worrying about this:

    1. I only came off the pill in December so perhaps my cycle is still messed up.
    2. I have just bought a CBFM which I will be using next month to work out what is going on and when is the best time. Internet cheapy OPKs don't seem to work on me at all.
    3. Worrying about when AF will arrive may be preventing it from arriving.

    Thanks - I came off the pill in October & I've been ttc longer this time (10 months) than I did with my DD (6 months) the first time I came off the pill.
    I've got a CBFM & use 19/20 sticks per cycle & never get a high let alone a peak - I forget to use the cheapie opks!
    I'm not worried, just can't work out what's going on - it only occurred to me I was so late in my cycle the ther day as I'm busy with other things so I haven't thought about it for probably 2/3 weeks since my last cbfm stick.
  • Miskate
    Miskate Posts: 116 Forumite
    Sorry - I didn't mean to imply you were worrying. GOD I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TELL ME OFF FOR WORRYING - I would hate it if you thought I was doing that!

    I personally think that you're either the type of person who worries (about everything) or you aren't. I am that type of person. There is literally nothing I can do about it. I've been worried about being infertile my whole life, just like I'm worried about people I love being hurt or being in an accident.

    Back on topic - I was hoping the CBFM would give me more signs of ovulating, but perhaps it won't! Another thing to worry about! HOORAY!
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    Miskate wrote: »
    Sorry - I didn't mean to imply you were worrying. GOD I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TELL ME OFF FOR WORRYING - I would hate it if you thought I was doing that!

    I personally think that you're either the type of person who worries (about everything) or you aren't. I am that type of person. There is literally nothing I can do about it. I've been worried about being infertile my whole life, just like I'm worried about people I love being hurt or being in an accident.

    Back on topic - I was hoping the CBFM would give me more signs of ovulating, but perhaps it won't! Another thing to worry about! HOORAY!

    Miskate you sound exacly like me! I worry about most things too!

    My OH is going to be taking his driving test soon and Im already worrying about him having a car and being in a accident in it :o
  • Skint_Catt
    Skint_Catt Posts: 11,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Miskate wrote: »
    Sorry - I didn't mean to imply you were worrying. GOD I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TELL ME OFF FOR WORRYING - I would hate it if you thought I was doing that!

    I personally think that you're either the type of person who worries (about everything) or you aren't. I am that type of person. There is literally nothing I can do about it. I've been worried about being infertile my whole life, just like I'm worried about people I love being hurt or being in an accident.

    Back on topic - I was hoping the CBFM would give me more signs of ovulating, but perhaps it won't! Another thing to worry about! HOORAY!

    No, no! I know worrying/stressing can delay things so was just explaining that I wasn't, lol. If I'm given enough time I am a worrier (about silly little things more often than not), but having a toddler doesn't give me the time anymore - that's why it's taken me 3 weeks to realise I haven't had an AF!

    Just can't work out why now my cycles are going up the swanny! lol
  • faith2009uk
    faith2009uk Posts: 307 Forumite
    Hi Girls!

    Welcome newbies!

    Can I be updated on the list to 2DPO please?

    Things are so hectic here at the moment - so will catch up later :D x
  • catloverbex
    catloverbex Posts: 236 Forumite
    Miskate wrote: »
    I personally think that you're either the type of person who worries (about everything) or you aren't. I am that type of person. There is literally nothing I can do about it. I've been worried about being infertile my whole life, just like I'm worried about people I love being hurt or being in an accident

    ^^^ Omg! This is me! Hubby thinks I'm crazy as I worry so much about everything and anything lol. If I call someone and they dont answer but I would be expecting them to answer then I'll worry that something has happened to them :o

    Welcome Carrot :wave:

    Currently sat on a train melting as its ridiculously hot! X
  • loulou123
    loulou123 Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    I had a chat with one of my male friends today who knows about mine and hubbys problems ttc and completely out if the blue he offered his urm "services" if mine and hubbys problems turn out to be related to my hubby!

    Shocked beyond belief that anyone would consider that as a "normal" thing to suggest - its not often I'm stunned into silence but I have been today!

    I'd never do it of course...still shocked now!
  • Ooh Lou Lou that's an ehm interesting offer!!...

    Spotting for me today so defo expecting AF next day or two.

    Ah well - Guess who'll be drinking wine tomorrow evening then.

    Xxx
    Baby on board - EDD 29th Sept
  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    Ooh Lou Lou that's an ehm interesting offer!!...

    Spotting for me today so defo expecting AF next day or two.

    Ah well - Guess who'll be drinking wine tomorrow evening then.

    Xxx

    Oh no :-( I had high hopes for u this month :-(
    Joined SW on 1.5.14 - Weight 11 stone 11 :eek:
    :A- 8/13 :A - 4/14
  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    Lou Lou - what an offer! Think it a bit creepy though lol
    Joined SW on 1.5.14 - Weight 11 stone 11 :eek:
    :A- 8/13 :A - 4/14
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