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Trying for a Baby Part 9

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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    becca0417 wrote: »
    Morning ladies. Well ff has put me at 3 dpo which would mean we did bd at right times. Hmmm. Can someone look at my chat and see what they think? X

    Temps match up, bit odd youve got a positive opk at 1dpo though.

    If you keep putting your temps in ff will always move it if it thinks its wrong after you've entered more.

    Either way you still bd lots of times so should be in with a good chance!
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Winner of April BFP predictions (5): ME (again!!) and Angeltreats. Well done!

    May Graduates:
    :jBigZippy - 4/5/2013 :j
    :jMincepiemonster - 7/5/2013 :j
    Goppers - 14/5/2013

    May BFP predictions
    Thriftylass - 3
    Chelseablue - 4
    BabyMad - 4
    samtoby - 4
    ruth - 4
    sjlou - 5
    catloverbex - 5
    picklekin - 5
    Goppers - 5
    faithhope - 5
    chocgirl - 5
    Birdie - 5
    Becca - 6
    Elsie - 6
    tia86 - 6
    ttc39 - 6
    alice31 - 6
    Kalama - 6
    TCD - 6
    purcy81 - 7
    angeltreats - 7
    katy29 - 7

    Thread Graduates:
    fluffysox BFP 06/02/13
    toothfairy BFP 06/02/13
    Hopelass BFP 10/02/13
    MiffyMoo BFP 11/02/13
    Lemonmelon BFP 14/02/13
    maire BFP 19/02/13
    Trina BFP 20/02/13
    AngelMommy BFP 21/02/13
    TTC40 BFP 21/02/13
    Lilymay BFP 04/03/13
    Retepetsir BFP 05/03/13
    abis BFP 12/03/13
    amy_85 BFP 14/03/13
    vic3 BFP 23/03/13
    KScarlet BFP 26/03/13
    credit_crunch BFP 31/03/13
    Optimistic_mummy BFP 16/04/13
    Lilymay BFP 20/04/13
    emylou BFP 21/04/13
    amyloofoo BFP 24/04/13
    BigZippy BFP 4/05/13
    Mincepiemonster BFP 7/05/13
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Two week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD68 Bekkikay - 54DPO :cool:
    CD54 Kellykins -31DPO :cool:
    CD34 chocgirl - 17DPO :cool:
    CD31 jammy26 - 16DPO :cool:
    CD31 Skaps* - 12DPO :cool:
    CD25 ruth26 - 12DPO :cool:
    CD25 BabyMad* - 12DPO :cool:
    CD23 atton - 11DPO :cool:
    CD25 Thriftylass - 11DPO :cool:
    CD25 littleme - 10DPO :cool:
    CD22 Codemonkey - 8DPO :cool:
    CD23 TTC39* - 7DPO :cool:
    CD18 lilmissmup- 5DPO :cool:
    CD19 Faithhope – 3DPO :cool:
    CD19 becca0417* – 3DPO :cool:
    CD16 Tashatutuw - 3DPO :cool:
    CD25 Alice31 - ?DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone
    CD86 dustystar - Awaiting ov :o
    CD76 Skintchick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD72 lilian– Awaiting ov :o
    CD61 ema_o- Awaiting ov :o
    CD55 apple*pie - Awaiting ov :o
    CD53 bambisbelle - Awaiting ov :o
    CD43 KimLouise - Awaiting ov
    CD42 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD37 Sapphire - Awaiting ov :o
    CD36 McRach– Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 Ejecoms - Awaiting ov:o
    CD28 cwtw - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 firefly369- Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 any name will suffice - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 TeamLowe– Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 Chocoholic_chick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 Vesper -Awaiting ov :o
    CC17 twigpig - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 Kynthia - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 blondy24 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 samtoby - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 BeautyButterfly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Sophiasmum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Purcy – Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Gelly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Angeltreats*- Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Katy29 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Mrs_T_M - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Picklekin - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 squ1rrel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Kalama -Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Goodvibes* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 Tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD5 sjlou - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 PommeVerte - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 Claire16c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 january23- Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 tia86 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 Elsie37- Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 Catloverbex - Awaiting ov :o

    :T TCD's own special list :T
    CD11 teaandcakeordeath - Awaiting next step :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    claire16c wrote: »
    Temps match up, bit odd youve got a positive opk at 1dpo though.

    If you keep putting your temps in ff will always move it if it thinks its wrong after you've entered more.

    Either way you still bd lots of times so should be in with a good chance!

    Thanks Claire. I'm wondering if my PCOS is sparking off all the weird +OPKs I've had this month.

    At least I know I've oved now. Phew!

    As to all the ladies asking about time of day to BD, I've tried every time of day and most positions possible and it still hasn't worked so I don't think there's much in it!
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    edited 16 May 2013 at 8:27AM
    Morning all! :wave: Thanks for the birthday messages yesterday, nice to feel loved and makes turning 1 year older a little easier to bear! :o

    Got a high on my CBFM this morning so hopefully we'll have a birthday week conception if we're lucky?! :)

    Hugs for CD1 Elsie and Catloverbex. :o

    As for the morning vs evening BD, we just BD when we can! :o It tends to be at lunchtimes mid-week since OH is too tired at night and would kick-off if I woke him at 6.30 for BD in the morning (fair enough considering he finishes work at 10pm) so we have to settle for lunchtime quickies which means not a lot of time for lying around afterwards. :o It's not ideal, but better than nothing and I keep telling myself that he's got super fast c0ck dolphins so surely the best ones will already be on their way by the time I have to jump up and leg it back to the office hoping that my beard burn doesn't give me away! :rotfl: Although I try to satisfy myself with that logic, clearly it's not correct since I'm not PG... but lets not dwell on that! :p

    Oh and Becca, just realised a PM I sent at the weekend didn't actually *go* (can't get the hang of typing stuff and it sending on my tablet, must have fat fingers! :o)... so THANK YOU for the CBFM sticks! I love how generous our ladies are on here! :D
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
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  • thriftylass
    thriftylass Posts: 4,033 Forumite
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    edited 16 May 2013 at 9:39AM
    Well the TWW SSing and guessing continues. Didn't trust my temps this morning. We DTD at 3 am (our usual time :rotfl: and I woke up again at 5 so thought don't have another full three hours sleep left and took temp but that was obviously after interrupted sleep too. Temp went down a bit but I better wait and see what tomorrow's does.

    Yes so middle of the night is our usual time as we're both a bit coy and don't jump each other in broad daylight more like the victorians in the dark under the covers :rotfl: . No seriously, that's just how it is out of practical reasons (DS walking in, tiredness etc). But at least that gives plenty of time for lying around afterwards
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  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    Just to wade in on the time of day thing - I've tried them all, and most positions, in my 2.5yrs of ttc. The cycle I got my only ever bfp (which was actually 3/5/13, not the 4th, which doesn't really matter but I've been looking at it wondering why it looked weird to me lol) we'd DTD in the afternoons, quickies, and I think I jumped back up and got back to whatever virtually straight away. Also, for any ladies worrying about 'o'ing during the crucial BD, I don't recall that happening either. :o:p I have asked medical professionals before about propping up the bum etc and they've said it doesn't make a difference, maybe if you had a tilted cervix, but still doubtful. I do notice when bd is timed right though, no matter how long I lie there, it takes longer for his 'stuff' to reappear :o
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • picklekin
    picklekin Posts: 889 Forumite
    Gopppers wrote: »
    And theres another one - Goober!!

    Sorry! I must have read it and it was in my head! In my defense i'm sick and was posting from my phone :P
  • becsxxx
    becsxxx Posts: 802 Forumite
    Hello everyone :wave: thought it was time I de-lurked on this thread after following you all for a few days - am trying desperately hard to get the hang of all the abbreviations, but it's quite difficult at the moment!

    Anyway, a bit about us - I'm 31 and DH is 39. We were married in November and I always thought I wanted to be married for a year before trying for babies. However, loads of friends my age having fertility problems has made us rethink this and so we are trying from this month.

    I have always been incredibly regular, but have had two very strange and irregular months recently after a colposcopy following an abnormal smear - has anyone else ever had this? All ok with the test, no treatment required, but am hoping I'll get back to normal this month.

    Good luck to everyone and commiserations to those not lucky this month x
    .
  • picklekin
    picklekin Posts: 889 Forumite
    Welcome Becsxxx! May your stay here be short!

    I had two very irregular cycles (17 days) after having surgery (on my spine). I think they any tinkering about in our bodies can mix things up a bit, but doesn't mean there is anything to worry about.

    If you need any help with abbreviations just ask, took me ages to work out that BD meant baby dance, which I think is really cute :)
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