Trying for a Baby Part 9

codemonkey

alice31 wrote: »

Selfish post...but I am out already and didn't even make it to 14DPO.

Feel rubbish

Absolutely not a selfish post. I am sitting here looking at a beautiful nappy cake I need to take into work tomorrow and I just want to kick it over and eastenders is all about pregnant people and babies and I have early AF pains and a stupid evap on a stupid test I shouldn't have peed on in th first place. So erm what I'm trying to say is it is perfectly normal to feel that way and healthy to get it out here where we all understand.

codemonkey

claire16c wrote: »

Oh no worries. I feel ok in that however long it takes to get referred I may well have some relatively normal cycles Im just worried as this one and the last have been so weird its been the push I need to see someone, plus they cant blame it on the pill which I know they would have done if Id gone in the year before I got pregnant.

Plus Ive had two normal cycles before these, since the miscarriage, so they cant blame it on that either. So I feel like its the right time to go. Ive just printed off ALL my ff charts to show them! They will love me :rotfl:

It's good that you're doing this. It's a long process and you never know, you might be the annoying cliche "oh we tried for ages then got our fertility referral and I got pregnant naturally with octuplets".

alice31

codemonkey wrote: »

Absolutely not a selfish post. I am sitting here looking at a beautiful nappy cake I need to take into work tomorrow and I just want to kick it over and eastenders is all about pregnant people and babies and I have early AF pains and a stupid evap on a stupid test I shouldn't have peed on in th first place. So erm what I'm trying to say is it is perfectly normal to feel that way and healthy to get it out here where we all understand.

Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate and am sorry that you feel rubbish too. I think I had naively let myself get excited this month after joining here and properly temping etc. I feel annoyed at myself for being so hopeful!!

Don't even get me started on that stupid Max and fishlips pregnancy story on Eastenders!

beautybutterfly

This is the part of my cycle I hate. I'm 3 days late and stupidly I've taken 3 pregancy tests, all negative. So as far as I'm concerned I'm not pregnant i just wish AF would turn up so I can start again. I keep telling myself that the tests might not be accurate as my cycles aren't always 28 days but I know I'm prob just kidding myself. Feeling rubbish!!

claire16c

codemonkey wrote: »

It's good that you're doing this. It's a long process and you never know, you might be the annoying cliche "oh we tried for ages then got our fertility referral and I got pregnant naturally with octuplets".

Id love nothing more to be an annoying cliche lol Prraaaphs not with octuplets though :rotfl:

Its weird though I always feel like that type of thing happens to other people. Whereas I will be the person who ends up going to the fertitlity person and having some kind of problem

I feel really irritated and sad about the whole thing at the moment. Which is why I am not looking forward to tomorrow as I doubt very much theyll have anything that I dont know already to say.

lilymay1

Evening ladies,

My apologies for being AWOL the last month or so and thank you to all of you who sent me lovely supportive messages during and after the m/c.

Truth be told I shouldn't really be posting on this thread but I just wanted to post something that a lot of my long time buddies would see. Most of you know my journey but for everyone who is facing an annoyingly difficult time, it can still happen. Even when you've given up all hope.

In the nicest way possible, I really hope I don't have to come back here again but I am hoping to see you all on t'other thread.

Love Lily xx

angeltreats

1 dpo today. Better late than never. DH will be relieved as I've been driving him mad whinging about my lack of egg.

Will catch up with everything later. Hope you all have a lovely day x

ttc39

Morning all, cd18 - one bar cbfm.

Feel a lot brighter today , probably as I'm out of bed early for me ! And have hung some washing out in the gorgeous sunshine.

Come on girls, if we don't do it this time lets aim for next month is my attitude today.. Or maybe at least by end of year.... Fingers and toes crossed for all of us xxx

sophiasmum

Claire16C - hope your Dr listens and you get some helpful advice. You sound like you are prepared anyway with all of your print offs!
LilyMay - x
Sorry for everyone on CD1.
I know Im showing ovulation signs - but couldn't get DH to BD last night "too tired" Rah!

codemonkey

claire16c wrote: »

Id love nothing more to be an annoying cliche lol Prraaaphs not with octuplets though :rotfl:

Its weird though I always feel like that type of thing happens to other people. Whereas I will be the person who ends up going to the fertitlity person and having some kind of problem

I feel really irritated and sad about the whole thing at the moment. Which is why I am not looking forward to tomorrow as I doubt very much theyll have anything that I dont know already to say.

Yeah that's how I feel too. Hope it goes well today.

Have woken up with a major headache and an urge to just go back to sleep but I have a stupid meeting so need to be in the office. Grrr.