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Trying for a Baby Part 9

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  • alice31
    alice31 Posts: 119 Forumite
    Got a positive OPK today (CD11) and have BD. As this is our first "proper" month trying, I am not sure how I will know if I have ovulated? FF says I could ovulate today, tomorrow or Saturday, but how will I know?

    Sorry to seem completely dim!
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Testing List


    Winner of March BFP predictions (7): vic3, Mrs_T_M, Elsie, katy, sjlou, angeltreats
    firefly - 7. Well done!


    April Graduates:

    Woo Hoo - first graduate. Congratulations!!

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    April BFP predictions
    TeamLowe -11
    ttc39 - 10
    Claire16c - 10
    Purcy81 - 10
    sjlou - 9
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    Birdie85 - 8
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    Ruth26 - 7
    Squ1rrel5 - 6
    Katy29 - 6
    Becca - 5
    Angeltreats - 5


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    maire BFP 19/02/13
    Trina BFP 20/02/13
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    amy_85 BFP 14/03/13
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    ejecoms BFP 10/04/13
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Cd2 please
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    alice31 wrote: »
    Got a positive OPK today (CD11) and have BD. As this is our first "proper" month trying, I am not sure how I will know if I have ovulated? FF says I could ovulate today, tomorrow or Saturday, but how will I know?

    Sorry to seem completely dim!


    You ovulate 12-36 hours after your first positive opk, but sadly there's no way to tell when exactly that egg will jump until afterwards. You might get ov pains but not everyone does. You'll know its happened when your cm dries up. Hth.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Oh my word, a newborn baby was abandoned on a bench in my town, about 20 minutes from my office. Life seems really unfair giving a baby to someone who clearly isn't ready or able to deal with it, while some of us who are ready and have been trying forever, still aren't pregnant. Its that damn raffle prize again.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    codemonkey wrote: »
    Oh my word, a newborn baby was abandoned on a bench in my town, about 20 minutes from my office. Life seems really unfair giving a baby to someone who clearly isn't ready or able to deal with it, while some of us who are ready and have been trying forever, still aren't pregnant. Its that damn raffle prize again.

    So true and I'm sick of it. Good job I'm not religious or I think I'd been insane by now as I'm always thinking that.

    The other day I was reading on another post on here where people were saying the thing about 'if you wait til you're ready you'll never have kids'. That is so not true for some of us! We're ready and have been ready for ages!!
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    I know exactly what you mean. It's so unfair.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • sjlou
    sjlou Posts: 572 Forumite
    cd2 today please. :(
    :heart: Mini me due March 2014 :heart:
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    That is so sad Code :( Life is so unfair, both for the people who want children but can't and for the poor kids who are the products of these unwanted pregnancies and are destined for a life in care. The worst bit is that if you wanted to adopt that poor baby they'd either drag it out for years or just write you off as unsuitable! :(

    Big hugs for getting AF Tink and Sjlou :(
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
  • angeltreats
    angeltreats Posts: 2,286 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    My Clearblue stuff has just arrived!

    Code, I agree it all just seems so horribly unfair.
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