Trying for a Baby Part 9

Birdie85

becca0417 wrote: »

Updated you birdie, please say you'll stick around whilst NTNP??!
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Oh and you ladies are naughty... I might have now started a secret baby board on pinterest! What are you doing?!! I don't need any encouraging!

Of course I'll be sticking around!

Pinterest secret boards are amazing! So glad I can be baby crazy with no-one knowing! Before they were around I'd pinned a couple of cute things and my friend asked me if I was PG since I was pinning baby things!

emylou wrote: »

Birdie I have been asked that question twice in the last few months! :mad: I was initially very upset but afterwards felt angry that the women (both older women who "say it like it is" apparently) didn't feel it was at all rude when I said "no" & didn't seem to notice/care that I was hurt by their question?!

Oooh stupid rotten insensitive women! :mad: I work with a girl who is super skinny and a guy asked me if she was PG because she was wearing a tight dress and her stomach was popping out slightly. I was so offended on her behalf, told him that it was a cake baby and to keep his nose out!

Sapphire.

CD60... now nearly as long as the first off-pill epic cycle of 64. Will POAS tomorrow but not hopeful, think it's just stupid cycles.

claire16c

Birdie85 wrote: »

Oooh stupid rotten insensitive women! :mad: I work with a girl who is super skinny and a guy asked me if she was PG because she was wearing a tight dress and her stomach was popping out slightly. I was so offended on her behalf, told him that it was a cake baby and to keep his nose out!

Id be mortified if someone asked me that. The other day I was so bloated I looked like I did when I actually did have a small bump - although part of that at the time was also from bloating. I almost convinced myself perhaps I was actually pregnant & the period id just had was just a blip :rotfl: Ive got a very flat stomach as all my fat just goes on my hips & bum so any bloating on my stomach I notice immediately!DH actually starting poking fun at me & saying I had an 'Ethiopian belly' ! I said yeah well I'm about to get in bed with you so you better hope the air doesn't try to escape!

codemonkey

Going to say 1dpo. Not sure though. Could be 1dpo, could be 3dpo. No idea what my body is doing, but if I'm only 1dpo, it's probably not happening this month. At least I'll be able to go on holidays though.

I remember last year it was my last day in a particular department and I said to someone that I probably shouldn't let them have something but it was my last day and I was in a good mood and she said "Aww, are you going on maternity leave?". Errm no.

In my current job, I can't do anything without people thinking I'm pregnant. I went home early one day cause I was feeling sick and dizzy and when I came back someone told me congratulations. It turns out that one of my colleagues jumped to conclusions and told people I was pregnant.

bigzippy

Congrats abis!

Thanks amy & birdie & becca - I/we have decided to skip clomid this cycle. It makes no difference in the long run, I'll still see fs at the same time etc, so, why not? :cool:

Firefly, how long do they think the waiting list'd be?

Tink, be careful you don't get reported for advertising on here cute bird bunting tho.

How did it go TCOD??

:wave: everyone else

skaps

CD1 today. Body was playing tricks on me, had sore breasts for the last few days and have never had them before so got my hopes up.

Fed up with the whole ttc.

Birdie85

Sounds like giving the clomid a miss this month is a good thing for you BZ, hope you feel better without it.

How frustrating having everyone assume you're PG all the time Code! :mad: I make a point of regularly talking about drinking wine and poking my belly and moaning about my 'cake baby' to reassure people that I'm not knocked up! Still get people looking for a bump that isn't there from time to time though, wish they wouldn't do that.

Hugs for CD1 Skaps.

Still a big fat bloater today, it's never this bad for this long mid-cycle.

firefly369

bigzippy wrote: »

Firefly, how long do they think the waiting list'd be?

In our area (Glasgow) the waiting list is 18 months to 2 years:(. Obviously we are hoping that we will be pregnant long before then.:D In the meantime I am trying to get as healthy as possible to give ourselves the best chance.

TCOD - How did your appointment go?

Sapphire - Hugs for cd60. I think I would find thatharder than cd1.

Becca - Yay for growing follicles, excuse my ignorance but are they on different ovaries?

Loulou - Did you test yet?

fannyanna

Morning all.

I'm having bit of a panic this morning. I have a doctors appointment in a few hours - the purpose to look at some test results and be referred to the fertility specialist.

Sounds brilliant but I'm convinced it's all too good to be true. I'd always been told that my weight was a problem and I couldn't be referred until it was a certain BMI. Moved to a new area and a new doctor said she would refer me. She's now left so I'm meeting a new doctor later and I'm worried that she'll have a different opinion to the doctor I saw last time and wont refer me.

I know it sounds crazy but after 2 years this is the closest I've come to a referral and the thought that it could be snatched away from me is scaring the hell out of me.

I have butterflies in my stomach.

claire16c

fannyanna wrote: »

Morning all.

I'm having bit of a panic this morning. I have a doctors appointment in a few hours - the purpose to look at some test results and be referred to the fertility specialist.

Sounds brilliant but I'm convinced it's all too good to be true. I'd always been told that my weight was a problem and I couldn't be referred until it was a certain BMI. Moved to a new area and a new doctor said she would refer me. She's now left so I'm meeting a new doctor later and I'm worried that she'll have a different opinion to the doctor I saw last time and wont refer me.

I know it sounds crazy but after 2 years this is the closest I've come to a referral and the thought that it could be snatched away from me is scaring the hell out of me.

I have butterflies in my stomach.

You've lost a ton of weight right? Pardon the pun! So its pretty clear that you can lose it if needed, and have done so, and know what youre doing in respect to that. So try to think positive!