Trying for a Baby Part 9

jammy26

Can I please be updated to CD1. Was hoping I would have the CBFM for the start of this cycle but no phone call yet :-(

ttc39

Big hugs from here too Team Lowe on CD1 :-(

Jammy26 don't worry as someone kindly told me- u have until day 5 to use on first cycle

Bright and sunny here - makes a change lol

Hope u are all ok xx

Birdie85

Hugs for the stupid BFN TL We should market HPTs with happy messages when it's a -ve, like 'Not this time sweetheart, but don't give up!' and 'Maybe it's a shy bean? It's not over till the witch arrives!'

Hugs for CD1 Jammy Hope the CBFM arrives soon.

Hugs for McRach as well, sounds like your OH was being a bit thoughtless there. Its natural to feel pain when you hear about a family member/friend getting PG easily. At least, I hope it is because that's how I feel! I feel both excitement and dread in equal measures about my nephew's arival next month.

ttc39

I have a niece who is six this year.. As soon as i Knew sister in law was pregnant , i am ashamed to say that I felt completly jealous and very upset that it wasnt me :-( Have a good relationship with both of them now but i remember being very upset.. so i think its totally understandable ... x

BabyMad

Aah big hugs for bfn TL!!

I've bought conceive plus today and will give that a try.

Please can you add a * next time you do the lists Becca - thank you

McRach_2

claire16c wrote: »

Surely he wasnt being serious? Its totally normal and ok to be upset. He can't honestly think you wont be upset can he? Maybe it was a bad joke?

If he's serious was Id be upset and angry if that was my DH! He's told you he doesnt want to actively try and now doesnt want you getting upset when someone else is pregnant who you are likely to be around/hear about?

But if hes now saying to you he wants to ntnp, then he cant at the same time expect you to be all happy about someone else. You're hardly gonna be leaping for joy are you!

Exactly! This is why i was SO frustrated with him yesterday, i honestly believe he doesn't actually link things together that he says.

I also just LOVED the conversation we had.... ME: I didn't think they wanted kids?? OH: me neither but they were drunk i think
:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

amyloofoo

McRach wrote: »

Exactly! This is why i was SO frustrated with him yesterday, i honestly believe he doesn't actually link things together that he says.

I also just LOVED the conversation we had.... ME: I didn't think they wanted kids?? OH: me neither but they were drunk i think
:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Awwww, McRach - sorry to hear that it's not just me whose DH was hit with the insensitivity stick. You can't take too much notice, the poor deluded creatures just don't know what they're saying My 18 year old cousin's baby was born two days ago, he and his 17 year old girlfriend got pregnant following drug use and when they were broken up. There have been allegations of cheating and domestic violence from both parties and he openly admits that he doesn't love her and that he only got with her because she's 'easy' (yep, he's a charmer) - I had a good old cry, at which point DH decided to jokingly pipe up with "well at least we know one we can adopt if we can't have our own" :eek: That man needs some serious sensitivity training! What with the pre-AF cramps I don't think he got the reaction he was hoping for, suffice to say, I don't find him hilarious :rotfl:

Big hugs to all who need or want them, and fingers crossed for positive results from upcoming FS appointments. BZ, I really hope the NTNP approach works for you... what with the magical powers of relaxing and all that

McRach_2

amyloofoo wrote: »

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Awwww, McRach - sorry to hear that it's not just me whose DH was hit with the insensitivity stick. You can't take too much notice, the poor deluded creatures just don't know what they're saying

"well at least we know one we can adopt if we can't have our own" :eek: That man needs some serious sensitivity training! What with the pre-AF cramps I don't think he got the reaction he was hoping for, suffice to say, I don't find him hilarious :rotfl:

Ooohh Men eh!! :doh:

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: seriously!! I swear that mouth and brains dont communicate in men!!!

claire16c

McRach wrote: »

Exactly! This is why i was SO frustrated with him yesterday, i honestly believe he doesn't actually link things together that he says.

I also just LOVED the conversation we had.... ME: I didn't think they wanted kids?? OH: me neither but they were drunk i think
:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

Ugh. Just to rub it in eh?

When he's back from work I'd tell him how you feel. If that was me in your position I'd say to him he agrees to try properly & you can then be a tad more positive about people getting pregnant (well maybe...!). Or you ntnp & he needs to deal with the fact you are not happy -especially not about drunken pregnancy announcements . He can't have it both his own way!

I think you should also tell him how you feel just to make sure if he realises what he's saying or not - I.e was he just being an idiot or was he actually being very insensitive & should buck up his ideas.

Like a couple of weeks ago we saw something on the tv about some naughty kid and DH said 'looks like we had a lucky escape!' I looked at him & burst into tears. He didn't mean it to sound that way though and was really sorry! He just makes horrendously bad 'jokes' sometimes. But if he was actually not being supportive then I would be really angry.

Sapphire.

Tested. BFN as expected. AF where are you?!