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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 12

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  • Lilith1980
    Lilith1980 Posts: 2,100 Forumite
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    Hi all, 28 AFDs for me please :)

    Last week at the job I don't like, got a late night working on Wednesday which I wish I didn't have as I just want to get home, however, it will be the last one and then into a 9-5 job where I can leave it all in the office when I go home :)

    Hope Monday isn't too bad for everyone, I haven't got the Monday blues today like a normally have lol :o
  • Miskyn
    Miskyn Posts: 24 Forumite
    Well, with a bump, fell off the wagon last night, 3 days alcohol free then a trip to a mates house, red wine (1 bottle), lager (2 cans, 1 btl) NOT proud..... got myself a proper hangover... yup, sore head and feeling stupid... breakfast of nurofen.. NOT the breakfast of champions..:o

    Will resolve to make today and tomorrow AFD's to make it 5/6 AFD's ... damn you pathetic will power :mad:

    Please put me down for 25/31 days for May please...
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  • Hi everyone, had an EVENTFUL day.
    Kids into school by 7.50 am happy days.
    Mum ill, dad ill, dad to docs by 11.30 mum to docs 4pm.
    Prescriptions everywhere, kids doing my head in hey ho diddly um um.
    Mum has shingles, dad has constipation and is impacted, blind and got vascular dementia. Spent all day on the phone to meals on wheels 2 doctors surgeries, 2 different hospitals and picking up prescriptions, and going to doctors. Watching Emmerdale hoping to learn a lot from these wonderful role models lol.
    Thanks macpep x
    26/29 one day left til May.
    Shaggy if you can, don't worry if you can't cos it must be near to your dads funeral I will set a full monty target for May. Look after yourselves.

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  • mackeroo
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    Hi Everyone :wave:
    Sorry been awol of late, no real reason or excuses, just life i guess. I havent kept an eye on my drinking either so it would be a fib to say how many AF ive had in April, so i will just start again in May with a target of 12 AF please Shaggy
    I do hope you are all well, im away to read back to catch up with all your news
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  • mrsrainman
    mrsrainman Posts: 304 Forumite
    CuppaTea wrote: »
    Why thank you!:D

    How are things in the rainman household?

    Not that good at the mo. MrR was made redundant in the 16th so we have daily drinking from lunchtime. Fortunately he has a new job which he starts on the 13th May. It's longer hours so hopefully should make a difference.

    MrsR xx
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  • Barny1979
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    AFD Number 27 for me :)
  • Hi everyone, bad news my auntie passed away, she had been in intensive care for 6 weeks today. They tried for over an hour to resuscitate her. RIP. That makes 6 deaths in about 2 months, starting to feel a bit numb.

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  • The_Boss
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    29 AFDs for me.

    Please put me down for 31 in May.
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,847 Forumite
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    mrsrainman wrote: »
    Not that good at the mo. MrR was made redundant in the 16th so we have daily drinking from lunchtime. Fortunately he has a new job which he starts on the 13th May. It's longer hours so hopefully should make a difference.

    MrsR xx

    At least he's got another job so not all bad news but it's hard to believe he's drinking more when he's out of work. I can see that he has the time but surely money's tight? I think you're amazing to cope with it.:)

    So sorry to hear your sad news 41. You must be so proud to have managed to stay away from the booze with so much stress.:A

    Good to see you mackeroo and well done for getting yourself back on track for May.

    Another day for me, my last this month as I'm out for dinner tomorrow.

    So that's 12 AFDs please Shaggy.
  • Slowdown
    Slowdown Posts: 619 Forumite
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    In the face of everyone's difficulties it feels somewhat trite to celebrate my 8/8 AF days, so I will give myself a quiet cheer and a small smile. I would never have done this if it wasn't for this thread.

    41 and i know it - What a week. It's amazing anyone gets through these things, but as I know myself, somehow the days just keep on ticking over and you have no choice to keep going. When we look back at times of high stress and difficulties it's almost as if it happened to someone else and we realise how resiliant we really are. I am hoping you can find some deep inner strength to help you cope. Your parents must be so proud to have a daughter so kind and helpful.

    Lots of support to all of you.

    Kind regards
    Slowdown:)
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