We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Social services onto me about not having child in nursery! Advice needed

1535456585966

Comments

  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    I did try the main stream approach with one of my children. It transpired that despite moving house and trying 2 fee paying schools that my child is too advanced relative to other children of the same age. Unfortunately when primary aged children are working 4 years ahead of their peers the schools can't cope. I now prefer an individual education.

    Yeah, I guess the rest of us with our thick kids will just have to stick to mainstream schooling :rotfl:
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    johnnyl wrote: »
    no,you didnt but others did. Perhaps they can comment on what they think of teachers who post on MB's and display the same flaws.

    You'll have to quote and quiz them, rather than me if you want them to comment.
    ******** Never be a spectator of unfairness or stupidity *******
    "Always be calm and polite, and have the materials to make a bomb"
  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    I did try the main stream approach with one of my children. It transpired that despite moving house and trying 2 fee paying schools that my child is too advanced relative to other children of the same age. Unfortunately when primary aged children are working 4 years ahead of their peers the schools can't cope. I now prefer an individual education.

    Will your child sit GCSE exams?
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    poet123 wrote: »
    Will your child sit GCSE exams?

    Been there, done that. At age 12.
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • poet123 wrote: »
    Will your child sit GCSE exams?
    Been there, done that. At age 12.
    They will start IGCSE at 13 (the minimum age for many centres) in common with many home educated children.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    I did try the main stream approach with one of my children. It transpired that despite moving house and trying 2 fee paying schools that my child is too advanced relative to other children of the same age. Unfortunately when primary aged children are working 4 years ahead of their peers the schools can't cope. I now prefer an individual education.
    They will start IGCSE at 13 (the minimum age for many centres) in common with many home educated children.

    You do know you sound a bit of a wally boasting about your kids like this don't you?
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    I did try the main stream approach with one of my children. It transpired that despite moving house and trying 2 fee paying schools that my child is too advanced relative to other children of the same age. Unfortunately when primary aged children are working 4 years ahead of their peers the schools can't cope. I now prefer an individual education.

    I know of at least one place of education where this is not odd at all.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I did try the main stream approach with one of my children. It transpired that despite moving house and trying 2 fee paying schools that my child is too advanced relative to other children of the same age. Unfortunately when primary aged children are working 4 years ahead of their peers the schools can't cope. I now prefer an individual education.


    I'm interested.

    Many parents who home school make similar claims about how exceptional their children are, how do their educational outcomes compare (on average) with children who go to school?
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    You do know you sound a bit of a wally boasting about your kids like this don't you?

    I wonder if a home education involves lessons in humility.
  • notanewuser
    notanewuser Posts: 8,499 Forumite
    johnnyl wrote: »
    no,you didnt but others did. Perhaps they can comment on what they think of teachers who post on MB's and display the same flaws.

    The thought occurs that people dont spend too much time and effort worrying about their spelling etc on an MB.

    I'm 35. I learned English by writing with a pen on paper. I was taught to punctuate as I went. Thats how I still do it. Is that not how it is taught today?

    There's a difference between a typo and repeated mistakes/laziness.
    Trying to be a man is a waste of a woman
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.1K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.5K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.4K Life & Family
  • 258.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.