Would it be offensive to..

quinechinoise

melbell wrote: »

I do have a bit of a crush yeah, but he is still an amazing friend to me.

I would have said: go for it, make the offer and, if he's really struggling, insist on doing it because he'd do the same for you, etc. However...

You have a crush on your best mate?? Do you have... other motives? That's sort of: icky.

Don't go there. I'd help my best mate with almost anything (and he's male) but I don't see him the way you see your friend. Remember: boyfriends come and go but (true) friends are forever.

Teeniepops

I think some folk are being a tad harsh on the OPer.

She said in an earlier post that when watching films they 'snuggle' up. If this happened a few times then who's to say he doesn't like her too? Unless I missed a post to the contrary...

I agree it's a bit risky to pursue if it puts a friendship at risk or the OPer knows he doesn't feel the same...that doesn't mean his cat will end up in the microwave or anything.

melbell

Hi all!

He gave me the £6 to pay off his statement (He thought I was going to go to the bank and pay it there so I saw the full balance. The balance was £5.91) Who on earth spends 62p on AMEX in tesco :P

I stayed over last night and his sofa is comfy. he was glad of the help. I put a load on for him.

melbell

DannyBo wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I bet you did !

hahahahaha of washing! :P

barbiedoll

OP, you're being a lovely friend and I hope you don't think we were doing anything other than teasing you, you don't really sound like a bunny boiler!

And don't worry, after a few days of running around after him and washing his smalls, you'll soon find your infatuation wearing thin. Just ask any married woman! :rotfl::rotfl:

melbell

I hope people don't think that. he is single and I've become single in the last month or so.