Daughter absolutely potless dont know where to turn

zoominatorone

wouldbeqaulitymoneysaver wrote: »

Just read the thread Benefit bashers in abundance.
When you have experience of MSE you soon learn to spot the Benefits Bashers threads and avoid and or use it to some good.

Technically you can't be calling people responding benefit bashers. Because the people who are in the doodah with no money aren#t actually ON benefits, they just want to be.

kelpie35

Boots888 wrote: »

Please don't make a mockery of people's mental health. That's really below the belt!

Excuse me it was the OP who said the state her daughter was in.

I personally think the OP should be using her energy in helping her daughter and son in law to find work rather than being rude to posters who have the right work ethics.

You need to read posts properly boots888 before making pointless remaks..........thank you

Boots888

zoominatorone wrote: »

Usually they say that when the answers they get aren't to their liking and the penny drops that there is no magical wand for their problem.

That is not the case at all. Poster above is right - people like to kick people when they are down.

OP came here for advise and did get some good advise and empathetic words but the few that have gone completely "left wing" are pitiful and shouldn't be permitted to comment.

But hey ho! It's an open forum eh! Anyone can say what they want right, it's not agianst to law, it's up to the moderators!!:T

iluvmarmite

OP as had been mentioned, on 13th Dec you say your daughter has now got a flat, on 8th Dec you say everything for her is now sorted and how lovely the people in the benefits office were to her.

You said she found it hard getting somewhere to live that would accept housing benefit except for a run down flat ( the one you say she had now taken) to get housing benefit you either have to be claiming benefits or on a low wage.

If this is the case what is this thread all about? She's either not claiming anything or is claiming benefits and is living in her own flat, very confusing!

Boots888

kelpie35 wrote: »

Excuse me it was the OP who said the state her daughter was in.

I personally think the OP should be using her energy in helping her daughter and son in law to find work rather than being rude to posters who have the right work ethics.

You need to read posts properly boots888 before making pointless remaks..........thank you

Yes, Op stated her daughter was struggling with her mental health. That's a statement of fact.

You then went on to make a mockery of OP's mental health!!

Didn't you!!:eek:

Boots888

kelpie35 wrote: »

For someone to be so worried about their daughters mental health (suicidal threats) and the lack of money she and her partner has I find their postings so rude.

Maybe OP you need to take a step back and consider ways. of you and them finding any kind of job that brings in money and you might have a happier life.

Good luck with your search

Is that not making a mockery of one's mental health!

ie, get a job, make some money and - be happy!

bloomingflower

zoominatorone wrote: »

Technically you can't be calling people responding benefit bashers. Because the people who are in the doodah with no money aren#t actually ON benefits, they just want to be.

So is this not what this whole forum is for then? It's for people to claim what they need when they need it? Your post makes no sense.

Maybe MSE should close this benefits board down altogether then?

debrag

Boots888 wrote: »

Yes, Op stated her daughter was struggling with her mental health. That's a statement of fact.

You then went on to make a mockery of OP's mental health!!

Didn't you!!:eek:

No she didn't!!!!!!!!!!

Show me how?

zoominatorone

bloomingflower wrote: »

So is this not what this whole forum is for then? It's for people to claim what they need when they need it? Your post makes no sense.

Maybe MSE should close this benefits board down altogether then?

The forum is onlyfor people who WANT to be on benefits?