Daughter absolutely potless dont know where to turn

Boots888

ILW wrote: »

So is the father now British?
With a bit of luck they will find another country that pays higher benefits than the UK and they can try there.
As a whole they just seem to follow the handouts.

No ILW!! He Spanish and alway will be, but he's a European!!

You need to get down to the discussion board to spout your vitriol and anger at policies instead of banging on here with your daily Mail rants.

You've 5 stars to your name - !!!!!! - behave like it before we all begin to think the credits you've gained are worthless:eek:

blaque*angel

People come for advice and get treated like a criminal! MSE MSE!!!:mad:

zoominatorone

blaque*angel wrote: »

People come for advice and get treated like a criminal! MSE MSE!!!:mad:

Usually they say that when the answers they get aren't to their liking and the penny drops that there is no magical wand for their problem.

shazm.69

:money:

ILW wrote: »

So is the father now British?
With a bit of luck they will find another country that pays higher benefits than the UK and they can try there.
As a whole they just seem to follow the handouts.

What a good idea i will pass that on

Boots888

kelpie35 wrote: »

For someone to be so worried about their daughters mental health (suicidal threats) and the lack of money she and her partner has I find their postings so rude.

Maybe OP you need to take a step back and consider ways. of you and them finding any kind of job that brings in money and you might have a happier life.

Good luck with your search

Please don't make a mockery of people's mental health. That's really below the belt!

debrag

kelpie35 wrote: »

For someone to be so worried about their daughters mental health (suicidal threats) and the lack of money she and her partner has I find their postings so rude.

Maybe OP you need to take a step back and consider ways. of you and them finding any kind of job that brings in money and you might have a happier life.

Good luck with your search

Boots888 wrote: »

Please don't make a mockery of people's mental health. That's really below the belt!

Boots show me where this happened? They have done no such thing

zoominatorone

debrag wrote: »

wheres the mocking?

There wasn't any mocking was there?

I didn't see any.

The op's daughter and son in law need to stop focussing purely on benefit-getting and get themselves out and take any job they can find, ANY job.

blaque*angel

zoominatorone wrote: »

Usually they say that when the answers they get aren't to their liking and the penny drops that there is no magical wand for their problem.

If people have no advice to give, then move on. dont make situations worst! Like my mother says "if you have nothing nice to say, then say NOTHING at all"

ILW

Boots888 wrote: »

No ILW!! He Spanish and alway will be, but he's a European!!

You need to get down to the discussion board to spout your vitriol and anger at policies instead of banging on here with your daily Mail rants.

You've 5 stars to your name - !!!!!! - behave like it before we all begin to think the credits you've gained are worthless:eek:

Guess it's fine then.
After all the UK do have plenty of spare cash laying around to pay to anyone who's own country of residence will not give them handouts.
Funny enough Spain seem to have hundreds ot thousands of spare houses where as the UK have a shortage. But never mind. We will support anyone that asks.

wouldbeqaulitymoneysaver

Just read the thread Benefit bashers in abundance.
When you have experience of MSE you soon learn to spot the Benefits Bashers threads and avoid and or use it to some good.