worried and totally confused

princessdon

Gentile wrote: »

I agree. I never felt offended if that would help matters. I have been told to F*ck myself when I have questioned a single mum on why she lets her hubbie stay over on weekends and visits every other day and she claims benefits as a single mum. So in that respect your post hardly deserves to be reported.

And I apologise for implying you were a troll. Just a few around right now and I think your reply made me 2+2= 5 etc. I'd like to apologises for jumping the gun, it was uncalled for.

justlooking2012

Well it seems that Mckneff has indeed had my post removed, please all be careful what you post as Mckneff may not agree with it.

Gentile

justlooking2012 wrote: »

Well it seems that Mckneff has indeed had my post removed, please all be careful what you post as Mckneff may not agree with it.

Sorry to hear that. Its difficult to post what you think over here. There are rules to follow etc.

Dunroamin

Gentile wrote: »

I agree. I never felt offended if that would help matters. I have been told to F*ck myself when I have questioned a single mum on why she lets her hubbie stay over on weekends and visits every other day and she claims benefits as a single mum. So in that respect your post hardly deserves to be reported.

That would be in the two days since you joined MSE, would it?

justlooking2012

Gentile wrote: »

Sorry to hear that. Its difficult to post what you think over here. There are rules to follow etc.

The rules I can cope with, posts being removed because of one member thinking they know better than everyone else who contributed to the thread and never saw anything wrong in what I wrote, is another matter.
I mean I never set out to be rude and believe me I more than have the ability to be rude if I so wished.
I realise that this site needs long standing members who post thousands upon thousands of posts but surely they also need new members who themselves are allowed opinions.
I have received no PM, warning or anything to say why this happened so does anybody know who I should speak to about this.
I also doubt if whoever removed it has actually read the whole thread

Gentile

Dunroamin wrote: »

That would be in the two days since you joined MSE, would it?

Yes, in two days but twice told to f*ck myself in one thread. All because I didnt extend sympathy but instead chose to ask questions about the arrangement. Not that I am offended by that, its just to show there are more offensive replies in this forum.

dundeediva

instead of adding more to this apparent bashing session (no blame from any sides, not getting involved etc etc!!). OP I dont have anything to add that anyone else hasnt except I hope your OH is ok, bieng off for 3 months sounds like it was quite a bad accident!

Take a deep breath, you'll manage

McKneff

It wouldnt be removed because only one poster reported it. There would have to have been more, and if Admin had thought it was okay, then it would not have been removed.

I am wrong often, and am quite happy to hold my hands up when I am and apologise in the correct places.

You dont need my permission to post anything, but you run the risk of admin deleting any post.

dodger1

Does anyone know how we can find out why it was deleted? It would appear that the majority were in no way offended, so I'd like an answer as to why. The deletion is also pretty stupid as it's still there in four different posts. Further to that if that post was deleted by admin or a moderator for anything offensive I can only assume they have never bothered to read anything posted in "discussion time".

Mojisola

justlooking2012 wrote: »

Well it seems that Mckneff has indeed had my post removed, please all be careful what you post as Mckneff may not agree with it.

Well, dodger quoted it in post 22 so people can still read it and make up their own minds.