Am I right to be annoyed.

Meadows

Hazel_ wrote: »

So I was planning on a quiet night in with my boyfriend, I get my eldest sister come round with her two little girls, asking me to watch them tonight (She never asked in advance) She said "Oh I know you won't mind" and started to leave. I said that we might have been going out and she said "I know you'll change your plans for them" and walks off.
Am I right to be annoyed? I don't mind looking after them, but I'd like to have been asked.

So tell her no and in future to ask first if it really bothers you!

Hazel_

go_cat wrote: »

op your sisters behaviour is outrageous. Having a go at you for feeding the girls when she dumped them on you with no notice

Selfish does not even cover what she has done.

I agree, I'd never see them go hungry.

BitterAndTwisted

Be prepared for the s**t hitting the fan when the child-protection peeps make their enquiries. So soon after your falling-out is going to make it patently obvious who reported her to them.

Own_My_Own

BitterAndTwisted wrote: »

Be prepared for the s**t hitting the fan when the child-protection peeps make their enquiries. So soon after your falling-out is going to make it patently obvious who reported her to them.

Better for the s**t to hit the fan, than 2 kids get neglected.

Op, what do your parents think of all this ?

Hazel_

I've not spoke to my parents for years. I was disowned by them (long story). I only really have a relationship with my youngest sister.

Hazel_

Just a bit scared I've done the right thing, My boyfriend says I have he says that my neices will get what they need and that I got it for them.

londonsurrey

You're doing the right thing. There's no reasoning with people like your sister.

Hazel_

Thank you

custardy

Hazel_ wrote: »

So I was planning on a quiet night in with my boyfriend, I get my eldest sister come round with her two little girls, asking me to watch them tonight (She never asked in advance) She said "Oh I know you won't mind" and started to leave. I said that we might have been going out and she said "I know you'll change your plans for them" and walks off

Am I right to be annoyed? I don't mind looking after them, but I'd like to have been asked.

I think annoyed is an understatement
Is this normal behaviour for her/you?


Edit: didnt notice it was multi paged.
The follow up behaviour was even worse!

Hazel_

Yeah, its normal behavior for her. To want to party and not care about anything else.