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lilymay1

splishsplash wrote: »

Having said that, some people's intentions will forever remain a mystery to me.

This. If I had a pound for every time someone had said to me ...."perhaps it was for the best" when talking about my daughters death. Well, I would be a very rich woman.

I have come to realise that sometimes something is so awful people just don't know what to say and they panic. Perhaps your cousin sent the message in a moment of madness and has spent every day since thinking "I can't believe I did that, I'm such an idiot".

motherofstudents

While I do think it was a clumsy way of trying to help you, I would have freaked if I'd received that picture. I can totally understand how you must have felt. Everything you are going through - flashbacks etc - is perfectly understandable and normal and .......heartbreaking. Please be kind to yourself, you are hurting and there is no pain like it.