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  • TOBRUK
    TOBRUK Posts: 2,343 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I really do not expect to start at the top and I have applied for jobs earning as little as 10k a year.

    It is not that I have not aknowledged things like the New Deal for disabled people. I do feel a bit of shame in having to cap in hand for help to find a job due to my disability. I am an independant person and I would like to stay that way. I have applied for 6 jobs and heard nothing - not just one.

    I do require an income to survive as I do not have magic money to live on.

    The completely logical reason why I want to work at university is that I can get there direct on one bus is a main motive. There is no point me getting a job that I can not get to afterall. University does feel safe and known which does help too.

    New deal is not there to give you an advantage over others, it is to help you find a job which is suitable to you, it doesn't guarantee you a job, and there is no shame in finding out what suits you in the workplace. They will find you a workplace make sure you have the necessary equipment and needs. It is not a matter of because you are disabled we will give you a job! You say you want office experience (which you currently don't have, which you need for the jobs you are applying for) they can give you access to that, what you do with it is up to you.

    There is no shame in going to the job centre and speaking to the disabled employment officer and finding what your options are. They do not look upon you as a charity case! You can go on new deal and there is no question about losing your independance!! Get a grip phil you are not helping yourself at all!
  • studentphil
    studentphil Posts: 37,640 Forumite
    susy wrote: »
    Phil, what are your disabilities?

    Walking problems mostly, but also a bit with my hands in fine motor skills.

    NMM, you know what I mean I need a job that I can get it easily without lots of changing buses or having lots of walking.

    Alright I will pay a visit to the job centre and see what they come up with.
    :beer:
  • TOBRUK
    TOBRUK Posts: 2,343 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Walking problems mostly, but also a bit with my hands in fine motor skills.

    NMM, you know what I mean I need a job that I can get it easily without lots of changing buses or having lots of walking

    Alright I will pay a visit to the job centre and see what they come up with.

    Ask about new deal for disabled phil, ther is no shame about it at all - you have a hang up about disability! I take it you have disability benefit which will qualify you - look at http://www.jobcentreplus.gov.uk/JCP/Customers/New_Deal/New_Deal_for_Disabled_People/index.html
    What is New Deal for Disabled People?

    New Deal for Disabled People is a voluntary programme delivered through a network of Job Brokers who have been chosen by Jobcentre Plus because of their experience of working with people with health conditions or disabilities. Taking part in New Deal for Disabled People will have no affect on your benefit.

    This gives you an idea:
    First steps

    If you are interested in finding a job you can get in touch with a Job Broker who will tell you about the options available to you, so you can decide if you would like to take part.

    When you meet your Job Broker he or she will seek to:

    * Understand your situation
    * Discover what kind of work you would like to do
    * Give you advice about the local labour market
    * Discuss with you the most appropriate route into employment
    * Agree with you the next steps to take

    As you progress on New Deal for Disabled People, your Job Broker will support you in preparing for and finding work. This could include:

    * Matching your skills and abilities to the needs of employers
    * Identifying if you have any training needs and then working with local training providers to give you the extra support
    * Helping you through the process of applying for jobs
    * Supporting you during your first six months in work.

    Your Job Broker will also understand the barriers that might make it difficult for you to work, such as mobility issues or lack of confidence, and they will try to help you with these.

    There is more information on the site and it is all helpful - IT IS NOT A HAND OUT as you were thinking! Just do it phil for goodness sake.
  • studentphil
    studentphil Posts: 37,640 Forumite
    Thanks TOBRUK!!

    I do not get any disability benefits so that is problem in relation to new deal.
    Nevertheless, it is still worthwhile me asking to see what other support might be available through the job centre.

    Thanks again!!
    :beer:
  • TOBRUK
    TOBRUK Posts: 2,343 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks TOBRUK!!

    I do not get any disability benefits so that is problem in relation to new deal.
    Nevertheless, it is still worthwhile me asking to see what other support might be available through the job centre.

    Thanks again!!

    I would imaging that you would qualify for disabled benefit, however ask to see the 'disabled employment adviser' at the job centre or even better phone and ask for an appointment with this adviser.
  • studentphil
    studentphil Posts: 37,640 Forumite
    http://www.jobcentreplus.gov.uk/JCP/Customers/Helpfordisabledpeople/Employmentassessment/index.html

    That is a really good page.

    I have never claimed benefits as my parents have always looked after me and they see a stigma to benefits.
    :beer:
  • TOBRUK
    TOBRUK Posts: 2,343 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    http://www.jobcentreplus.gov.uk/JCP/Customers/Helpfordisabledpeople/Employmentassessment/index.html

    That is a really good page.

    I have never claimed benefits as my parents have always looked after me and they see a stigma to benefits.

    Phil you are an adult and you have to get over any stigma and take control of your own life. There is no shame in getting the help you need. You say your parents have always looked after you - it is time to cut the apron strings and start looking after yourself, you earlier said that you don't want to lose your independence, you are obviously not independant if you are living your life being looked after by your parents and only doing what pleases them all the time, you are not thinking for yourself! How old are you 21? Are you an adult?! You must start taking control of your life.
  • studentphil
    studentphil Posts: 37,640 Forumite
    TOBRUK wrote: »
    Phil you are an adult and you have to get over any stigma and take control of your own life. There is no shame in getting the help you need. You say your parents have always looked after you - it is time to cut the apron strings and start looking after yourself, you earlier said that you don't want to lose your independence, you are obviously not independant if you are living your life being looked after by your parents and only doing what pleases them all the time, you are not thinking for yourself! How old are you 21? Are you an adult?! You must start taking control of your life.

    I am 21. I am an adult. My parents do look after me, but I have always had independence in my school life and at university.

    I know the best thing I could do really is to move far far away from my parents and to an area where no one knows me and to have a fresh and independant life all on my own.
    :beer:

  • NMM, you know what I mean I need a job that I can get it easily without lots of changing buses or having lots of walking.

    .

    I know what you mean but surely there are loads of places that you can get to easily by public transport? Are you just afraid to try new things?
  • Phil, if you are eligible apply for Disability Living Allowance. You can claim this whether you are working or not.

    Maybe then transport would not be so much of a problem and you could get taxis if necessary.

    It is nothing to do with your parents whether you claim this benefit or not. If you are entitled to it, go for it!

    Here's the link!
    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/DisabledPeople/FinancialSupport/DG_10011731

    And here's the link to apply online:
    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/Diol1/DoItOnline/DG_10017715

    Hope this helps.
    (AKA HRH_MUngo)
    Member #10 of £2 savers club
    Imagine someone holding forth on biology whose only knowledge of the subject is the Book of British Birds, and you have a rough idea of what it feels like to read Richard Dawkins on theology: Terry Eagleton
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