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Help! Pregnant

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  • I just want to tell him now, I want him to come here now :(
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    Your feelings are totally understandable. What time is he due home?
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • Between 5 and 6 depending what time he finishes the last job. I just want him here now
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    What is of paramount importance now is your welfare and peace of mind. I would phone him and ask him to come home straight away because you need to talk about something important. He will most likely realise from your tone of voice that this is serious. Dont break the news to him over the phone. Thinking of you and hoping this incredibly difficult conversation goes as well as it can for you.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    How far along has this pregnancy progressed? 6 weeks? 8 weeks? 12 - or 20?

    Under 20 weeks and you do have choices as to whether you go on with it or not. I appreciate that you may not feel that this is an option for you - but it is an option.

    {hugs}
  • I'm going to call him now. I'm so scared though, Im scared he will go mad at me. He might think I did something wrong.

    I am about 3 months gone now. I really don't know what I want, I just want to tell him right now
  • So its done and he is on his way back now. I am really really scared to tell him
  • He is outside. this is it. Wish me luck..
  • go_cat
    go_cat Posts: 2,509 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    If the OP is genuine then a lot of advice was given on this thread

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3400042
  • abailey54
    abailey54 Posts: 1,581 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi OP, didn't want to read and run.

    Sorry for what you've been through, I hope things are going well with your boyfriend. None of this is your fault - you've been the victim of a horrible crime and I don't think it matters what age you are, a great deal of people of all ages keep their experiences to themselves (often through fear of not being believed)

    There's an organisation called After Silence that runs a forum that I've found helpful in the past when I've been unable to talk to anyone in 'real life'

    Hugs if it's okay
    Final cigarette smoked 02/01/18
    Weight loss 2017 28lbs
    Weight gain 2018 8lbs :rotfl:
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