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Help! Pregnant

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  • ecoelle
    ecoelle Posts: 1,585 Forumite
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    If you normally work you could book a doctors appointment for during the work day the he wouldn't have to know, or, you tell him you've got an appointment for something else like smear test. You must make sure you get help, a pregnancy is not going to go away, and you need to make sure you look after your own health, both physical and mental, x
  • I just want to pick the phone up and tell him, Im tempted to or tell his voicemail. Thank you for listening to me
  • Why won't the site let me respond to more than 1 PM an hour :(
  • Hi,
    Why won't the site let me respond to more than 1 PM an hour :(

    it's because you're a new member.

    Take care, and don't worry.
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,892 Forumite
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    As others have said you need to get yourself checked out soon. Please make a GP appointment
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • I'm just so scared. I can't take my best mate to doctor I want my boyfriend there but that will set off a chain reaction of events I wouldnt want :(
  • gibson123
    gibson123 Posts: 1,733 Forumite
    Of course you're scared, a very evil person was violent against you, using the worst weapon he could pick. If you are not sure of your boyfriends reaction get advice on how to tell him, or whether you should tell him. You do not have to tell him yet, you do need to deal with the health issues, urgently. People misunderstand rape, it is an act of violence, you did nothing to cause this to happen to you. He had no right, no justification and no cause to hurt you. Your boyfriend may not understand this at first, but he loves you and will understand eventually. Please get the help you need asap.
  • Fire_Fox
    Fire_Fox Posts: 26,026 Forumite
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    ((hugs)) Please go to the police as well as the doctor, you actually still have genetic evidence available and could help protect someone else - they can also help with Victim Support.
    Declutterbug-in-progress.⭐️⭐️⭐️ ⭐️⭐️
  • Welshwoofs
    Welshwoofs Posts: 11,146 Forumite
    You got raped IN a nightclub?

    Perhaps I'm getting seriously out of touch with what clubs are like - but how on earth does that happen without anyone noticing or helping?
    “Don't do it! Stay away from your potential. You'll mess it up, it's potential, leave it. Anyway, it's like your bank balance - you always have a lot less than you think.”
    Dylan Moran
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    I feel like I've opened up the problem page of Jackie magazine - and gone back 30 years in the process. I can't help but think a 26 yo would handle things differently.
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

    Hope is not a strategy :D...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!
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