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Presents You'd Rather NOT Receive?!

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  • I'm weird. I'm 22 female and don't like presents! I am bit of a control freak and hate surprises. I just don't see the point with receiving gifts that I won't use and then feel bad about it.

    I can't think of a single thing I want this year. I just need the basics and I'm happy.

    I'm 32, but otherwise this. Even as a child, I hated receiving presents.

    The best thing you can buy me is nothing at all. That's what I request, please respect that. :)

    Worst things for when you ignore me and buy something anyway...

    Smellies - I have very sensitive skin, so can only use certain products.
    Ornaments - Can't stand the clutter, love my bare shelves.
    Wine - Have never liked the taste, but I also don't drink any alcohol.
    Chocolates - Have to be dairy free which rules out most boxes.
    Vouchers - Most of the time they're for stores I never shop in.
    Clothes - They never fit or don't suit, just end up in the charity bin.
    Books - I love reading, but I only read things once so I use the library.

    And usually the ones that ignore me almost always buy one of the above!
  • sparrer
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    65 y/o female

    No to
    Any smellies - allergic to most.
    Alcohol - am teetotal.
    Chocolate - don' have a sweet tooth.
    Ornaments - can't stand clutter (or dusting ;))
    Certain gift vouchers ie boots/m&s, none near me

    Yes to
    Photographs of the family
    Time - someone to come in for one day and do all the little jobs I can't manage, like drilling holes for curtain tie-backs, putting up the roller blind in the bathroom

    I really have everything I need but thousands of children die every week for lack of something so simple (to us) as clean water, so the best gift I could have is a water well/taps/pipes/purifier/anything like that, donated to somewhere that doesn't have clean water.
  • goochie wrote: »
    My mum also can't resist doing a HUGE bag of presents for us both despite us telling her every year not to and last year we had a fridge pack of baked beans???, sticky stuff remover and grape-cutting scissors to name a few.

    Is your mum also my mum?!
    :eek:
  • BettiePage
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    Cheap and nasty toiletries, makeup, perfume or wine.

    I'd be happier with a gift card tbh. Or nothing.

    And yes, I know that makes me sound ungrateful.
    Illegitimi non carborundum.
  • 26 y/o female who lives with partner.

    No to:

    * Chocolates or biscuits of any sort (even Thorntons which I do love) as I am trying to lose weight and those that will be buying me Xmas presents this year are definitely aware of this. Just hope they remember!

    * Calendars - I always end up with about 5 or 6...as I sit here in the office I can see 3 that were all presents last year. My OH usually gets at least 2 as well and there's only so many you want up in the house.

    * Toiletries specifically for baths - I only have a shower and not a bath!

    * Make up - just don't wear it and if I do on a rare night out, I have the basics I require.

    * Knick knacks - just don't have the space and we are moving house at the beginning of February so don't want loads of extra things to have to wrap up!

    *Gloves/Scarves - got loads and only really wear my football ones anyway.

    Yes to:

    * Cookbooks - both me and my OH love cooking and although you can get lots of great recipes online, I like having some nice books to follow.

    * Stationary - I have just qualified as a primary school teacher so anything stationary wise will come in handy.

    * Shower gels/creams. As mentioned above, only have showers and it saves quite a bit of money from the supermarket shops in January if I already have enough shower gel.

    * Wine - we don't drink a lot in the house but always like a few bottles of wine around Xmas and New Year.

    * I love Jack Daniels so anything Jack Daniels related goes down well.

    * New board game - we love playing games especially in the winter so like anything new to try.
  • Valli
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    sparrer wrote: »
    Time - someone to come in for one day and do all the little jobs I can't manage, like drilling holes for curtain tie-backs, putting up the roller blind in the bathroom

    Last year I gave my friend vouchers to have her bathroom cleaned ... by me! She HATES cleaning her bathroom!

    I have a wish list on Amazon - and I am very easy to buy for!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • chirpychick
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    Valli wrote: »
    Last year I gave my friend vouchers to have her bathroom cleaned ... by me! She HATES cleaning her bathroom!

    I have a wish list on Amazon - and I am very easy to buy for!

    Can you be my friend lol I am due my baby Friday and my husband although trying so hard and being a huge help is avoiding cleaning the bathroom and I have severe SPD and I am dreading people coming to visit and seeing it the way it is :rotfl:
    Everything is always better after a cup of tea
  • Valli
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    If you weren't so far away I would!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • chirpychick
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    awww :) thanks :) It's the thought that counts :)
    Everything is always better after a cup of tea
  • Without sounding like a goody goody, I'm quite shocked at peoples responses to this thread It has been really interesting to read and made me think about the presents I will be buying this year.
    I genuinely can't think of anything I wouldn't want to receive, I just love presents :)
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