Single DFW

falldown7timesgetup8

welcome to all newbies by the way! :beer:

TakingControl

Hello everyone, hope all is going well with the members of SAD

Well, I got news which will mean I will no longer be a member of SAD, one is I am debt free as of today :j:j
The other is I have met a few months back a nice man and we are giving it a go

So although not technically a SAD anymore, I still would like to post at times for support if that's ok?

Archiebear

Congratulations TakingControl:T. So pleased for you! And please hang around.....as a Debt Free we all still need your advice!

rising_from_the_ashes

TakingControl wrote: »

Well, I got news which will mean I will no longer be a member of SAD, one is I am debt free as of today :j:j
The other is I have met a few months back a nice man and we are giving it a go

So although not technically a SAD anymore, I still would like to post at times for support if that's ok?

:j:jCongratulations!:j:j

Your post has made me think ..... technically I am DF (savings + budgeting pots would clear the OD if I chose to do so) but I don't think of it like that as it's money set aside for specific budgeting things.....

Can I stay too please:D

falldown7timesgetup8

TakingControl wrote: »

Hello everyone, hope all is going well with the members of SAD

Well, I got news which will mean I will no longer be a member of SAD, one is I am debt free as of today :j:j
The other is I have met a few months back a nice man and we are giving it a go

So although not technically a SAD anymore, I still would like to post at times for support if that's ok?

I THINK i might potentially have met someone too - really wasnt expecting that...for now, still technically a SAD tho, which at the moment, doesnt seem so bad! Wondering if i might be able to ditch the single status AND become debt free at the same time! :j

capt_fugazi

I'm on this journey too! Good luck everyone!

Kayleighpea

Lol it must be the winter weather making people couple up, I am also technically not a SAD anymore! I started seeing someone a couple of weeks ago but I have still been checking in on you all & keeping an eye on you. Who knows in a couple of weeks I may be back! :rotfl:

Loopylou1

Oh my godness I turn my back for 5 minutes and you all couple up!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Takingcontrol thats awesome news congratulations!! :T:T I can't wait til I type those words!!

Well i've paid another £15 of my debt by christmas AND i reckon I could manage another £100 when I get paid depending on xmas plans over dec

lovewealthhappiness

Grrr....I have a friend (in a couple) who about 3 weeks ago decided they want to buy a house totally out of the blue, has today had an offer accepted. Is it awful that I really can't be happy for them?

Feels like a great big kick in the teeth cause it's what I want more than anything and I've been looking for ages, but because I'm single the only places I can afford are in my budget for a reason, subsidence, next to a crack den, been flooded 5 billion times, actually just a shed :mad:.

Boo, I'm going to go and drown my sorrows in a large glass of wine being single really sucks sometimes.

Bluespidermonkey

Just been reading through this thread with interest and dipping my toe in the MSE water... Lovewealthhappiness - that does sound like a kicker, a night of wine and feeling blue is necessary sometimes - as long as you get up tomorrow and shake it off and get back to being positive about your own journey.

Hello everyone else,

Can i join - i am SAD (but actually quite happy about it ) I am finally divorced and trying to get out of debt and save up enough to go travelling round the world. Well now i ain't got anyone else to worry about (bar the dog) i realise it was what i wanted to do! My debts are not major anymore (been working on it for the last few years). But i still have £1k to go and then i need to save save save, so these boards are excellent inspiration.

B x