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studentphil

Loop wrote: »

"mental nutter" fks sake phil, you really take the biscuit....

Why are you posting all this stuff? This is a forum for moneysaving, not for you to incessantly post your whole life woes...

You say your going to have a break-down, but then when you get offered help you jump on them and say no your fine...I think its cos your scared of being found out that your a fraud.

I dont think you will get a job, regardless of disability and qualification, its your attitude that counts, and your stinks!

If you were cracking up, your posting style would have changed, but in the year you have been here, you have consistently posted exactly that same over and over...you are no more cracking up now than you were a year ago.

You full well know I have Manic depression, and for you to talk about mental illness with such disgust, is pretty low...even my life is more productive, and I have been through suicide attempts over and over....

Im going to follow you around making sure you log off every day to work towards your finals, its the only way to make you realise what you are doing and to log off, cos your current way isn't working!

PUT YOUR LIFE IN PERSPECTIVE!!!

I post it here because I feel really awful sometimes and I just have to express it. I am not cracking up all of the time, just sometimes I feel overwhelmed.

I am not going to fall out with you so there. Sorry if you do not like my phrases but in the heat of the moment you don't always feel PC.

mariauk

Well said Loop :T :T :T :T :T

Phil, You were on mse for 13+ hours yesterday and have been on here since 10am this morning apart from an hour. How can you expect anyone to take you seriously regarding your finals etc if all you have done is half a side of A4 The more you run away from things the more you moan and whinge. What is it you are actually hoping to achieve by being on here 24/7?

Catseyez

I have only come across your posts recently and reading them makes me feel frustrated! Sorry, but they do!

Loads of people are taking time to respond to you, give advice but it seems that you just are't willing to listen.

In relation to this thread, please could you tell me this:

1) The three key things you have learned

2) What changes are you going to make to your current situation.

Your threads really do test the patience of a saint. :wall:

studentphil

mariauk wrote: »

Well said Loop :T :T :T :T :T

Phil, You were on mse for 13+ hours yesterday and have been on here since 10am this morning apart from an hour. How can you expect anyone to take you seriously regarding your finals etc if all you have done is half a side of A4 The more you run away from things the more you moan and whinge. What is it you are actually hoping to achieve by being on here 24/7?

I don't know if you have ever avoided doing things but when you fear failure and you can not do something then you avoid it.

I try to battle my doom and gloom feelings about uni work but I can not seem to escape them.

I come on here because it is a bad habit that means I hide from my problems.

Catseyez

Just to go OT for a bit...but how do you know how many hours someone has been on MSE for?

Loop

But we all have issues in life, why YOU choose to rip apart yours so publically on this forum is beyond me!

Phil you have been avoiding work for a year christ man get a grip, your going to fail if you dont log off here and get on with life beyond your bedroom.

Im stalking you now!

studentphil

Catseyez wrote: »

I have only come across your posts recently and reading them makes me feel frustrated! Sorry, but they do!

Loads of people are taking time to respond to you, give advice but it seems that you just are't willing to listen.

In relation to this thread, please could you tell me this:

1) The three key things you have learned

2) What changes are you going to make to your current situation.

Your threads really do test the patience of a saint. :wall:

learned
1 If I take my work in small bits I can get there
2 I have achieved a lot so far at uni and I just have to do this last bit.
3 that I can get a job regarless of my subject.

change
try to stop worrying.
try to think positively about myself and my skills.

studentphil

Loop wrote: »

But we all have issues in life, why YOU choose to rip apart yours so publically on this forum is beyond me!

Phil you have been avoiding work for a year christ man get a grip, your going to fail if you dont log off here and get on with life beyond your bedroom.

Im stalking you now!

Because I have no where else to turn sometimes. I can not tell my parents or my friends and it is a bad habit I have of putting it all here.

I hope I will not fail and I normally get there in the end even if I am a last minute sort at doing things.

Catseyez

studentphil wrote: »

I don't know if you have ever avoided doing things but when you fear failure and you can not do something then you avoid it.

I try to battle my doom and gloom feelings about uni work but I can not seem to escape them.

I come on here because it is a bad habit that means I hide from my problems.

Phil, I believe that what you have stated here is a recognised condition amongst mental health experts. I am not being offensive here at all, but this avoidance behaviour that you're showing is recognised by professionals. I was reading an interesting article about it a couple of weeks ago but I didn't save the link.

It certainly seems that you have an internet addiction as well. 12,00 posts in the time that you've been a member is excessive. If you carry on with this frequency, then chances are you might probably fail your degree. However...if you disconnect from the internet and actually do some work, the chances of you passing will increase. Which would you prefer to happen?

mariauk

studentphil wrote: »

I don't know if you have ever avoided doing things but when you fear failure and you can not do something then you avoid it.

I try to battle my doom and gloom feelings about uni work but I can not seem to escape them.

I come on here because it is a bad habit that means I hide from my problems.

Very soon you won`t have to fear failure because it will of happened. The more you run the more you moan the more you moan the more you ignore advice the more you ignore advice the greater the chance of failiure. Who are you going to blame when you get a third Phil, Everyone on mse who has taken time to try and help

You have a few weeks left (supposedly) Whats the next set of threads going to be about :rolleyes:

The sooner you get off of your high horse and take note of what happens outside your bedroom the more you will be able to adjust to "REAL LIFE" It takes being knocked down for most people to smell the roses, pick themselves up and look at things in another light. I fear that unless you understand that other people in this world matter as much as you, things for you will never change.