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fairclaire

lokitty wrote: »

:T:T You always know exactly what to say FC. Such lovely words and no doubt echoed by us all.

lokitty.....thank you . you are a little shining star and your words will keep me going for a long time. Thank you xxx

choirchick

fairclaire wrote: »

don't know who's still up..I am. I have had a bad night.
my OH has been admitted to hospital tonight, our local mental health unit. I feel totally lost. we have been struggling for a long time. he was in Iraq last year and was badly injured. he lost 2 of his friends in the same attack. he is okm but did suffer some bad injuries.

he has been struggling for a while and tonight he just lost it. and I couldn't cope any more. He was suicidal and I was, for the first time, really fearful I would lose him. So I called for some help and thankfully it was there. but now I feel really guilty because he's not here. Probably not the place to be posting this. But this thread has been a lifeline to me over the last few weeks and has given me a place to concentrate on something different

Hi I am awake so sorry to read this but I think you have done the right thing for both of you. There are times in life when you have to make brave but difficult decisions that can be very painful.

This thread is a very supportive place to be & I know there will be plenty of caring advice & thoughts to help you get through this difficult time. Big hugs to you & hope things work out well in the very near future x

nahteb20

Sending huge hugs to fudge-cake just because your wonderful xxx

SpiralingDown

fairclaire wrote: »

don't know who's still up..I am. I have had a bad night.
my OH has been admitted to hospital tonight, our local mental health unit. I feel totally lost. we have been struggling for a long time. he was in Iraq last year and was badly injured. he lost 2 of his friends in the same attack. he is okm but did suffer some bad injuries.

he has been struggling for a while and tonight he just lost it. and I couldn't cope any more. He was suicidal and I was, for the first time, really fearful I would lose him. So I called for some help and thankfully it was there. but now I feel really guilty because he's not here. Probably not the place to be posting this. But this thread has been a lifeline to me over the last few weeks and has given me a place to concentrate on something different

Huge hugs to you

fairclaire

farmville wrote: »

sorry to hear this fairClaire :( sounds like your OH has been struggling for quite a while (and you too), please don't feel guilty, you did the best thing getting your OH much needed help, it will also give you a little breathing space sending you a big cyber hug x

Thank you and sorry for 'losing'it. have to admit I did feel desperate tonight. thanks for taking notice. we will be k...I think. I appreciated your comment very much. thank you xx

Raven

SpiralingDown wrote: »

I did get told this at Toscos until I pointed that big banner out to him, he did go a bit red when he saw it just in front of his till :rotfl: don't think I've had any problems since

No problems for me either, in fact so far its a lot less hassle than this time last year (just before they stopped taking them).


Still feel very suspicious about the fact they are doing this in N.I only - why not U.K wide . . . any sort of regional variations in prices or in this case offers - always seems wrong but hey-ho Mr T clearly feels he can do as he pleases.


Someone in England should put a complaint in and see what Mr T has to say for himself . . . . . why accept other stores vouchers in Belfast but not in Manchester



Raven

fairclaire

SpiralingDown wrote: »

Huge hugs to you

thanks.... xxx

SpiralingDown

scamps1966 wrote: »

Nah, they're worth nothing! I'll give you a £1 each for them:D

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Fudge_Cake_2

nahteb20 wrote: »

Sending huge hugs to fudge-cake just because your wonderful xxx

:o:o:AThank you xxx Hugs greatly welcomed

How's your tooth tonight lovely? Sorry I haven't been keeping up to date and haven't caught up today. Hope you're in much less pain :Axx

nahteb20

fairclaire wrote: »

I just feel so guilty! I have been trying so hard bit I am accepting he needs more help. than I can give him

i know its easy for me to say "dont feel guilty" but you really did the best thing i'm sure he will thank you for it in the future.
I know you must feel in limboland at the moment but once to speak to someone at the unit tomorrow it might give your mind a little rest and reassurance xxx:grouphug: