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Fudge_Cake wrote: »Sorry my wording wasn't clear at all!!! I was agreeing with you saying that it depends on the preferences you ticked.
On my Lorealinsider, the only coupon from the 3 selected for me, for Elnett, was the Lumiere one. On my Mum's, out of the 3 selected for her, there were 2 Elnett coupons. One for the Lumiere and one, as above and as I said before, for ANY Elnett. I was agreeing with you Zippy!0 -
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fairclaire wrote: »don't know who's still up..I am. I have had a bad night.
my OH has been admitted to hospital tonight, our local mental health unit. I feel totally lost. we have been struggling for a long time. he was in Iraq last year and was badly injured. he lost 2 of his friends in the same attack. he is okm but did suffer some bad injuries.
he has been struggling for a while and tonight he just lost it. and I couldn't cope any more. He was suicidal and I was, for the first time, really fearful I would lose him. So I called for some help and thankfully it was there. but now I feel really guilty because he's not here. Probably not the place to be posting this. But this thread has been a lifeline to me over the last few weeks and has given me a place to concentrate on something different
So sorry to read what you and your OH are going through right now.
You shouldn't feel guilty as it sounds like you have just done the best thing for him, hopefully he can get the help he needs now.
Thinking of you both and {{{hugs}}} to you xx0 -
SpiralingDown wrote: »I've got loads of these keys, apparently worth a fortune if sold to the right person
. DH used to fix the machines he was given keys by management to do his job but sometimes the clients would give him spare keys they had too so we ended up with a huge bunch of spares including one that could open up a number of them.
Nah, they're worth nothing! I'll give you a £1 each for them:D0 -
So sorry to read what you and your OH are going through right now.
You shouldn't feel guilty as it sounds like you have just done the best thing for him, hopefully he can get the help he needs now.
Thinking of you both and {{{hugs}}} to you xx0 -
fairclaire wrote: »don't know who's still up..I am. I have had a bad night.
my OH has been admitted to hospital tonight, our local mental health unit. I feel totally lost. we have been struggling for a long time. he was in Iraq last year and was badly injured. he lost 2 of his friends in the same attack. he is okm but did suffer some bad injuries.
he has been struggling for a while and tonight he just lost it. and I couldn't cope any more. He was suicidal and I was, for the first time, really fearful I would lose him. So I called for some help and thankfully it was there. but now I feel really guilty because he's not here. Probably not the place to be posting this. But this thread has been a lifeline to me over the last few weeks and has given me a place to concentrate on something different
Oh fairclaire how awful for you both. Thinking of you and sending you hugs. This is absolutely the place to post. You will find a lot of support here.
I expect that you won't get much sleep tonight but try to rest if you can. Don't feel guilty you did the right thing and hopefully things will be on the up now that you are both getting some help.
Thinking of you
xWhen I grow old, I dont want people thinking "what a sweet old lady" I want them to think
"oh carp what is she up to now!"0 -
fairclaire wrote: »don't know who's still up..I am. I have had a bad night.
my OH has been admitted to hospital tonight, our local mental health unit. I feel totally lost. we have been struggling for a long time. he was in Iraq last year and was badly injured. he lost 2 of his friends in the same attack. he is okm but did suffer some bad injuries.
he has been struggling for a while and tonight he just lost it. and I couldn't cope any more. He was suicidal and I was, for the first time, really fearful I would lose him. So I called for some help and thankfully it was there. but now I feel really guilty because he's not here. Probably not the place to be posting this. But this thread has been a lifeline to me over the last few weeks and has given me a place to concentrate on something different
Don't feel guilty, it sounds to me you've done the right thing. Not great with words but will be thinking of you.0 -
SpiralingDown wrote: »I've got loads of these keys, apparently worth a fortune if sold to the right person
. DH used to fix the machines he was given keys by management to do his job but sometimes the clients would give him spare keys they had too so we ended up with a huge bunch of spares including one that could open up a number of them.
we were supposed to have a key as all money in it belonged to the club (members):)0 -
fairclaire wrote: »don't know who's still up..I am. I have had a bad night.
my OH has been admitted to hospital tonight, our local mental health unit. I feel totally lost. we have been struggling for a long time. he was in Iraq last year and was badly injured. he lost 2 of his friends in the same attack. he is okm but did suffer some bad injuries.
he has been struggling for a while and tonight he just lost it. and I couldn't cope any more. He was suicidal and I was, for the first time, really fearful I would lose him. So I called for some help and thankfully it was there. but now I feel really guilty because he's not here. Probably not the place to be posting this. But this thread has been a lifeline to me over the last few weeks and has given me a place to concentrate on something different0 -
fairclaire wrote: »thank you. I hate admitting it but feeling distraught right now. it's a big wake up call
Oh Fairclaire, I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. It's bound to be an emotional time right now, just remember, we'll all be here to support you! And here's hoping that now the problems can be dealt with and you can both work together to rebuild things again0
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