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Head says one thing, heart says another-husband having an affair

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  • You deserve better than being second best. Don't make someone a priority if they only make you an option. It's possible to get past infidelity but he has to admit he was wrong and start putting your family first, which he is not doing.

    Also I know you have probably not had time to think about this yet but do get checked for STDs since he has been unfaithful. Please protect yourself and your health.

    I completely agree with this. I would maybe be able to get past the actual cheating part after such a long time together, but only if there was definite remorse and absolute horror that he might lose me. It doesn't sound like this is how he is behaving at all. :(
  • gfplux
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    He has done you a huge favour, get rid of him now. From what you say the last two years have been leading to this anyway.
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