Trying for a Baby Part 8

amus

CD3 for me today!

vic3

My first time guessing how many BFPs- 5 please

lemonmelon_2

Hello ladies,

MV- thinking of you, you are not too old, your eggs are beautiful, and you have just been really really unlucky and it sucks but it will get better. You are definitely ovulating just fine since you are getting pregnant so don't be daft about it. Mc is hard for your body and it might take it a little while to readjust but it will, plenty of time for smiles yet - on OPKs and on a baby in your arms.

Sorry for having a wee meltdown on Thursday - I didn't cope with the news very well but I'm feeling a bit better about it now. I've done some searching and come up with a pma list in spite of everyting:
1. OH and I are Ok, this is what really matters, we love each other and we're both going to be fine and that's what is important
2. 'They' will keep a really close eye on me whatever happens next and that's a good thing because I'll get to stay healthy and if we do get to have a baby I'll get a little bit of reassurance that its alright. It was the best moment of my life seeing our baby's tiny heartbeat on a screen so I will look forward to having that again some day.
3. I can get back to being fit and healthy, the emotional and physical impacts of the last few months have turned me into a total slob.
4. Ignoring 3. there is wine in the fridge and a box of home made brownies on the counter.
5. It's finally December, all the awfulness of October and November are over, its Christmas time and everything will be good again.

I'm hoping its a brilliant Christmas for all of you, even the humbugs and guessing 11 BFPs this month - come and prove me right!

Metranil_Vavin

Thanks lemon, and I'm sorry for the news you had last week too x

Great PMA, and actually I need to take a leaf from you and start being a more 'glass half full' person.

Liking the prediction of 11 BFP's for December. I am going to go for 8 I think, November really was dire on that front!

lao_cat

Afternoon ladies, work has been hectic this week so haven't got to post, hugs to those who need it or just those who would like one

Can I guess 9 for December please?
AFM we have been bd every 2 days since cd10, I am pretty sure I have ov EWCM around cd13 so hopefully we caught it. If not this month then I might look at a more scientific approach.

Hugs to those who are having difficulty getting their oh to bd, FWISW we have gone through low bd times and its tough. I know I struggled with feeling like my DH didn't want me physically at times, however I also discovered that he feels the same during times of low bd. we had to work on improving our physical relationship as much through small displays of affection as through making time to be together and bd.

squ1rrel5

I am going to guess 6 BFP's for this month!

purcy81

Ok time to stop kidding myself I'm calling CD1 today that's me done for the month/year unless my cycles get shorter.

That means I'm relying on the rest of you ladies to help me win the December bfp prediction. I'm guessing 10 this month go team December bfp!

Hugs to all x

codemonkey

Ok I give in. I've pretty much thrown myself at him for 3 days with no success and now I'm fed up with it. I know he isn't feeling 100% but neither am I and it's not like my body is going to wait to ov. I'm done making an effort and I don't want to BD with him anymore. Guess its up to you ladies to get Christmas BFPs cause unless the Angel Gabriel pays me a visit, it's not happening.

TeamLowe

big hugs code, want me to come shout at him? lol

maybe a cycle with no chance will give him a kick up the butt x x

TeamLowe

big hugs purcy, hope this is the last time AF visits you for at least nine months x