Trying for a Baby Part 8

Metranil_Vavin

Can anyone who is using these/has used them just reassure me that sometimes you can get your much, much later than you expected??

I am CD 14, and this is the 2nd month now that I've had no smiley. The previous month to that I used these, got on CD13 so ov'd CD14 and did get BFP (lost it sadly) but at least my cycle seemed in check.

I am REALLY worrying that I am not going to ov, and that my 2 chemicals have messed up my cycle

Last months cycle was 29 days, generally my cycles are between 28 and 29 days long (30 days the month of my 2nd chemical)

Sorry for the ramble..can anyone just tell me if they have a fairly regular cycle and have got their + laster than they were expecting?

I'm feeling so low at the moment.....

Elsie37

MV I have had my smileys much much later- last month was cd23 and the earliest I have had it is cd18.

I am on cd18 today and no sign of ov yet xx

Courgette

Morning MV,

I don't know specifically about ov tests but if you've had two miscarriages in two months it wouldn't be a huge shock if things were out of kilter. My miscarriage was in July and my cycles still aren't regular. Believe me, I understand frustration and a desperation to crack on but don't underestimate what your body has been through xxx

becca0417

Mv thinking of you, sending some pma your way! Xx

It's December girlies! Bound to be a good month, it's my birthday & Christmas! Ill guess 4 this month.

Courgette

Hooray to December!!!! See ya, !!!!!! November, you've been really really !!!!!!!

I'm gonna guess 12 this month including me. Including everyone actually!

Metranil_Vavin

Courgette - I know you are right. I think because I managed to get pregnant very soon after my first mc, I was hoping it would be the case again, but apparently not.

Also because these two mc's were so early, I hoped they may not have done so much damage to my cycle.

I am also really worrying that it's age related (as the Dr so kindly put it to me on the phone after my second chemical )..not much I can do about that though is there.

I honestly can't see me ever having another forever baby. I'm sorry to ladies on here who perhaps feel I should be grateful that I have a child already - which incidently I really, really am..but it must be the crazy biological trigger in us that makes me yearn for another child as much as anybody else

elsie - thank you. Your post gives me a bit of hope, maybe I'll ov in the next few days. Just hoping that my luteal phase isn't screwed too.

Metranil_Vavin

Elsie - how long are your cycles on avearge?

Courgette

Please stop worrying about your age, you really do have time. I've always fallen pg really quickly, longest it's ever taken has been 2 months. I KNOW how lucky this makes me. This is now our 5th cycle after my latest mc and there is a part of me that's starting to worry.

I know it's so much easier said than done but if you possibly can, find a way to relax. I will now slap myself on your behalf. You could easily not ov this month, either related to your mcs or just one of those months. If you don't though that will be your body taking the break it needs.

Sorry if I've come across as a condescending cow

Metranil_Vavin

You aren't condescending, I appreciate your advice.

I generally get pregnant quite quickly too, my problem appears to be getting past about 4 weeks. I'm just worrying that I'm not ov'ing. I think I'll make an appointment with my GP next week. I have been putting it off as I normally find (most) Dr's unhelpful and unsympathetic.

I have started bi-weekly reflexology at work, so hoping that might help with the relaxation. The lady, who was lovely, told me I really need to chill. I bawled my eyes out in front of her, and she said she really wants to help me, so hoping that might help.

I just want to cry, but OH doesn't like it when I do. He gets annoyed and it just makes the pressure even more. Sometimes I feel like there's no one to talk to, so spend too much time trawling forums for people who *might* be going through the same as me.

Ridiculous.

TeamLowe

big loves MV i know its not the same but i do know how it feels to worry about your cycle and feel powerless and scared it wont happen
hope you get your smilie soon, are you temping? just thinking that your LH surge might not be at its usual time so you might have missed it but temping would confirm Ov? always the optimist me
could you speak to a different doctor maybe? i had a right !!!!!! the first time i went but the second gave me what i wanted, although he was a young male so maybe he was too embarassed to argue! lol x x