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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • purcy81
    purcy81 Posts: 571 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Hugs lemon x
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Birdie85 wrote: »
    :rotfl: Actually laughed at loud!

    Good too see! I thought maybe it was too subtle... someone on the other thread gave her the street name KMids and I liked it!

    Abis, you have been *'d
    becca0417 wrote: »
    Hugs lemon xxxx

    Abis nice to see you xx

    It is not fun trying to make a baby whilst living back at home!

    lol... I do find it funny how we all turn back into teenagers when at home! They probably have a inkling that you sometimes have s3x...

    purcy81 wrote: »
    Hugs lemon x

    ^^^ What she said. Tough times for lots of us.
  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    edited 30 November 2012 at 3:20AM
    Thinking of you lemon :( share what you want, when you want :cool:

    T2D, I'm declaring today (thursday) cd1 so tomorrow when you do the lists I'll be cd2 and back on clomid for the 2nd cycle. Skipped wine (well southern comfort was calling me, actually, but dh wasn't impressed with the idea of me drinking in a school night without him :cool:) and grabbed a KFC instead, chased up with a box of All Gold (£1.50 @ Morrisons :D) ;)

    PMA list:
    * with this sort of LP ands cycle length, we could squeeze in another cycle before Christmas, either making the best Christmas present, or the best reason to join forces with Southern Comfort for some reinforced festive merriment! :beer:
    * I should be able to keep my Christmas dinner down :cool:
    * morning sickness will also not be featuring in making travelling to see family at Christmas a nightmare :cool:



    :shhh: Having said all that, we are, of course, gutted :cry::o :shhh:
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Bz hugs for cd1 xx

    T2d - the thought of my parents thinking we might ever have sex is gross. I am we'll & truly childish when it comes to that. Luckily they were out last night!
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • Elsie37
    Elsie37 Posts: 233 Forumite
    Hugs for cd1!

    Becca - must admit the thought of doing 'it' at my parents would freak me out too!! Hope you manage to find times alone!!

    AFM, already fed up of seeing blank circles - cd17 today and no hint of anything! Also my cousin had a baby boy yesterday and found out a close friend is pregnant - obvs happy for them but also very jealous! Is that bad?!

    Thank goodness its friday - think a bottle of wine is in order!!

    xx
  • Sorry for CD1 Zippy. I was really rooting for this cycle being the one for you. Good Christmas PMA though. I keep thinking of the work Christmas party next week and the fact I can enjoy myself rather than preggo bird who will be sitting in the corner like a lump with a glass of mineral water! (I am deeply jealous of her lovely bump but don't tell anyone!)

    Hugs Lemon. We all need a boost. It's been a pretty crappy few months all round.

    CD13 for me, and was hoping I might get my :) this morning, but no..got a test error instead so a stick wasted. They are so bloody expensive too :mad:

    It says to wait 4 hours without peeing before testing again?? !!!!!!?? :eek:

    Like pin bladder (me) is going to be able to manage not to pee till 11am!

    I have the fear at the moment that I am not ov'ing. have had virtually no EWCM since the slighly blood stained stuff a few days ago. Hoping my spate of chemical's pregnancies haven't messed me up inside.
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    lemon - big, big hugs sweetie. I hope you're feeling ok today. Do you have another appt where you can speak to them about the results?
    elsie - I think happy but a bit jealous is the default TTC setting for a lot of us.
    BZ - big hugs for CD1. Is it wrong that I could eat a KFC right now (it's 8.30am?!)
    T2D - excellent listage again. :D
    hopelass - hugs for insensitive boss.
    abis - I think a wobble now and then is perfectly understandable. Hope today's a better one for you xx.
    QQ - thinking of you xx.

    AFM.... had an absolute nightmare day yesterday (which I will now be calling 'breakdown thursday'). Started crying at work at 2.30pm, cried all the way home (2hr15mins :mad:) then cried all night till 11pm. It's all just too much at the moment.

    Still can't believe I cried in a meeting, we were only talking about work! I just felt so frustrated that no one will listen and that my boss can get away with treating me like dirt. She's now saying she's going to change my contract to take out the few last good bits of my job. She also said that any feelings of being bullied are completely in my head and that she's disappointed with my behaviour. Oh, and as expected absolutely no flexibility on the amount of times per week I need to do the killer commute.

    OH has been lovely. Told me to tell them to stick it and take the redundancy (couple of months pay) and that I'll find something else in that time. With the ICSI in the new year I think leaving is the best option. Am so stressed at the moment I couldn't grow cress seeds, let alone a whole new person. So I'm 95% certain I'll hand my notice in on monday (have another meeting with boss then). Just going to have another panic about it all weekend.
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    Good too see! I thought maybe it was too subtle... someone on the other thread gave her the street name KMids and I liked it!

    Errr, I think I got it because I was the one who mentioned her street name! :p

    Oh, massive hugs for CD1 BZ :( I've got a great feeling for you getting a 2013 baby though! :)

    Sorry about the bad news Lemon. :(

    Big hugs Tea. Sounds like your boss is a massive cowbag, I think you'll be doing the best thing if you tell her to stick the job. You don't need such extra stress in your life right now!

    On the subject of doing 'it' at my parents' house... I used to when I lived with them. :o Although it was because I knew that there was no way they'd hear us over the noise of their combined snoring! ;) My Mum is embarassingly cool about her kids having sex, I'm the uptight one! She's always telling me to 'Do it all the time' to get PG, I don't like these conversations! :eek: Had a funny conversation with her last night about my brother SIL; it's their 1 year anniversary tomorrow and Mum said that they're not going away as apparently there's no funny business going on, nor has it since she got PG. I said that I thought she was supposed to be horny once she got to her point of pregnancy and Mum said 'I know! Poor lad... I did tell her that there are other ways and means of 'having fun' if you know what I mean!' :rotfl: It's funny when these comments aren't aimed at me! :)
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
  • Tea if your job is stressing you out so much, and your boss sounds like a !!!!!!, I would leave. I know jobs are hard to come by at the moment etc, but I personally don't think any job is worth your health, physical or mental.

    I left my well paying, full time job during my maternity leave as the thought of going back there was just stressing me out too much.

    If you can survive on your hubby's salary whilst you are looking for something else, then I'd say it's a no brainer.

    Try not to stress out too much hon. These things have a habit of coming right for the best x
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • Morning Ladies,

    Lemonmelon - Big Hugs for you.

    Hugs also for all the other ladies: T2D, Tealover, Abis, BZ, MV and anyone else who needs one. Last day of November I really hope December is a better month.

    Birdie - I would be so embarressed if my mum said stuff like that to me. :o

    Tealover - Your boss sounds like a nightmare. If your OH thinks you should take redundancy then I do too. I stayed in a job I hated for far to long, its not worth it if you can manage without the money.

    afm. I am 5dpo so trying to relax and enjoy the tww. I like this part of my cycle better, much more stress free; get to bd 'cos we want to; and there is a 'chance' I might be pregnant:p

    Just incase I am not pregnant this month, my soy should be here in a day or two so I have something new to try. Not sure why the FS is making me wait until March to give me clomid....probably should have asked at the last appointment:o

    Got my referal letter to the IVF clinic yesterday with the all the 'rules' for going on their list. I have to lose more weight (currently 5 kg loss since starting metformin) but have more to go. and hopefully I have just squeaked in under the age limit of 38 to join the waiting list.

    Hope you all enjoy your weekend.
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