Trying for a Baby Part 8

Metranil_Vavin

beautybutterfly - I'd recommend getting some of the Clearblue digital ovulation sticks.

They're really accurate, easy to read (you get a smiley face 24-36 hours prior to ovulation), and make it much easier to pinpoint your most fertile time.

purcy81

Hi all

I think I'll come join you in the sad corner today. This woman at work is really upsetting me, she came back from leave yesterday and she's so nosy she keeps asking me if I'm pregnant, then she said she thought I was as I rushed home from work the other week (when my mc started) and how lovely it would be if I was and even though I have told her I'm not she won't shut it. I only told my boss about what happened no one else at work knows. I had to escape work early I couldn't bare to be around her had to come home for a cry. I've asked my boss not to chew her out (he's fuming about the way she is acting) as along with being nosy she has a big gob and everyone would know about it then. Why can't she understand that my private life is mine to share only if I want to. Rant over. Hugs to all x

becca0417

Abis - the list is perfectly fine thank you for doing it. I'm just annoyed I m cd65 boo. You're doing we'll not poas! I haven't managed quite so well.

Purcy - what an insensitive woman. Clearly she needs to learn some tact. Hugs to you x

TeamLowe

Big hugs to Percy.

I'm feeling really down at the minute. Sounds petty and small, but when I got to my parents tonight for tea the door to the living room was shut so they didn't hear me come in or say hello and I could hear them all playing with my niece all gurgles. Just seem like a great metaphor for how I'm feeling ATM, barren and not worth a second thought cos of it cos everyone else is so happy with babies they already have so why give a second thought to my struggle kinda wish someone would be bugging me to have one, the ink ow they cared and was interested.

Also miffed at my unthoughtful husband but only over small things x x

Elsie37

CD1 for me . Dont know what else to say - gutted x

atton83

4 dpo

I wasnt saying it was all down to what you said about the cm i didnt mean to make you feel bad

I just feel there was no point in marrying dh as were never gonna b parents and that he says he wants kids but then makes more excuses up as to why he shouldnt have any tests were as he forces me through all tests to see if its not me

Even my step sister who was always a 1cow to me has a bloody kid and i still fight for it when there is obviously no point to it

I think ive been through enough. I need a damn break. Its my turn to b happy

beautybutterfly

Elsie37 wrote: »

CD1 for me . Dont know what else to say - gutted x

hugs, same for me today so i know how you feel xx

lilymay1

*sigh*

Only made it to 8dpo this month.

CD1 for me.

Metranil_Vavin

Sorry for the CD1's, November isn't proving to be a great month (maybe my mum is right about it).

Think I'll be joining you all soon too, cd28 and had some browny cm this morning, plus upset stomach plus AFish type cramps, so reckon it'll show in the next day or so.

Will do a test n saturday if no show, but doubt I'll get that far.

Onwards and upwards 9again) girls. Let's hope December is a happier month all round x

lao_cat

Purcy - what a nosy cow you work with. Well done on holding things together, massive hugs and I am glad your boss is supportive.
Teamlowe- Hugs for feeling down
Beautybutterfly & Elsie27 & lilymay Hugs for CD1
Atton- I think you are going to have to put your foot down with your DH and insist he goes for the tests, at least so you know what you are dealing. There is no point in you going through the motions each month and getting your hopes up, if there is an underlying problem that is causing issues. Would it help if you set up the appointments and went with him, or schedule tests on you at the same time? Hard as it is I think its important not to compare ourselves to others.