Trying for a Baby Part 8

TeamLowe

Oh it's awful when choices go wrong inope it solves itself in the most beneficial way to you, whatever that may be
Maybe to back to NTNP? Xx

firefly369

Vesper & Code - Big Big Hugs for feeling down at the moment.

Code you are very definately not a failure!

Anderson - C-O-N-G-R-A-T-U-L-A-T-I-O-N-S on your BFP:j I hope you have a very happy healthy 9 months. Its always great to hear there is a light at the end of this long and dark ttc tunnel:D

Tinks - Lovely creations as always.

lao_cat

vesper wrote: »

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oh it's defintely very trying. Feeling better tonight after speaking to my Aunt. May still phone samaritans later as am feeling extremely down and hubby is out for the evening. This is all because I made a life changing mistake in the middle of this year, I did something I shouldn't have done, knew it at the time,but felt I had no choice. Now it's all blown up in my face and has wrecked my life.

Common sense tells me not to keep ttc while this situation is going on, which it will until xmas. Plus am having severe problems with depression, but my selfish self keeps saying to carry on, as a baby would be the best thing that could happen.

hugs- def if you are feeling down reach out to someone. Not sure if it is helpful or not but I have suffered with stress and anxiety over the last couple of years! I am using mark Williams mindfulness programme and finding it very helpful! It is qlso meant to be useful for depression so could be worth checking out!

Qq massive hugs- hope your DH comes around !

Code- hugs you are not a failure, sorry to hear about the job

@Anderson congrats on the bfp

Leopardlady

OMG QQ, I can not say anything that hasn't already been said on here. I thank you for all your amazing support, 2 mc's and then my lucky bfp. I really hope you can sort everything out for the best between you and your OH and I agree that we are here for you and please stick around if you want to rant or just to chat. I do realise that seeing bfps will not leave you feeling happy.

I am sitting in my house soooo cold as we have no heating and no water! OH found the boiler was leaking so turned the water off and then we got an engineer out today and they want to replace the pump to have to wait for a part!! So I am lucky it is not a cold day today, and LO and me went for a swim so i could have a shower! (student card - work at a uni - so half price swim and LO is still free for two more days )

Well I don't think we will be able to get a bfp this month as OH is out a lot in the next couple of weeks and I am due to OV tomorrow or the next day. Hey ho!

I have read back, but have forgotten most of the comments I wanted to make.

Hugs for all the afs and the largest hug for QQ.

vesper

I'm just going to carry on ttc as usual. I won't let myself put anything else on hold despite the situation. TTC is giving me something to work towards, especially as it will be doubtful that I will go back to work anywhere.

Sorry for bringing the thread down, only happy thoughts from me from now on.

lemonmelon_2

Massive hugs vesper, we're all here for you. Well done for knowing you need help and where to get it, that's half the battle. Thinking of you x

QQuaver

Congratulations Anderson!:T

clearing_out_my_pockets wrote: »

Sorry didn't mean to offend / upset. Normally if I fall out with DH I buy him a little something to remind him why he fell in love with me. Appreciate it may not be appropriate here. Xxx

I'm not upset at you at all:wave:
Just can't think of anything to send to him:huh:

bigzippy

QQuaver wrote:

I'm not upset at you at all:wave:
Just can't think of anything to send to him:huh:

What about something to do with how you got together? Or reminder of your first date? Ticket stubs or something? Or something to do with plans you'd made for your future together? Or your wedding/proposal/anniversary? :huh:

As an aside, I can't believe he only emailed you!


Thanks to the ladies that welcomed me back, & I hope you're right amy!

Welcome to the newbies, and congratulations anderson - I think I remember you from #1??

atton83

Well tonight i an feeling rubbish. Down to a so called mate texting me to tell me she is pregnant and doesn't know if she should keep it as shes on so many meds due to depression and being sectioned 2 yrs ago. Yes i was there to hold her hand then. I told to go talk to her docter about options and what might happen if she has a baby on the meds she is on basically she doesnt know if she should keep it or get rid of it. She already has 2 kids. She knows i have been trying for yrs n just texted me out of the blue saying i don't know what to do about bbe?
!!!!!! why come to me when she knows i nrly killed myself over not working in that department. She knows oh needs to go for sa as well and then asks me if she should keep it or not.
Why me?

I think i may just be clutching at straws at ever getting there myself and i come on here after reading on 5 different doc sites about my cm issue i had and i got bumped back down so hard with sounds like you have an infection.
She smelt of !!! but no fishy or pongy odour and then there was no itching or any other symptoms

On top of the oh keeps saying i will go for the sa when weve done so n so. Oh i need to submit this first
Excuse after excuse n yes i know i married it. At the moment im asking why? He wants to progess forward on the ttc journey as long as he doesnt have to do anything i on the other had have had skin burnt. Cells taken so many people looking into her they would be doing echos into

So why did she come to me knowing full well she would upset me knowing i would have it if i could

Why cant i have some good news for a change

Instead i have been off uni for 4 days and now i am just generally feeling like a failure that my dad wss right that i am like my dead mom n that i am just generally a waste of a woman

Sorry i know i shouldnt be thinking like this but she has two n i just want my turn. I just need something good in my life not constant fights every day just to keep going

What the hell is the point......

atton83

Oh n this womans idea of contraception is the morning after pill. And then woundering why she may be pregnant. REALLY! REALLY!