Trying for a Baby Part 8

Metranil_Vavin

Sorry about the job Code. Get yourself a nice big glass of wine girl x

Congrats anderson

vesper, I know we're not there so to speak, but you can vent on here as much as you want hon xx

amyloofoo

vesper wrote: »

code you are most defintely not a failure.

Congratulations Anderson8!

Where's my cuppa? Just found a cold one on my bed side table that hubby had made me earlier, oops.
House now looks tidier ish.

Feeling so down today, trying to work out where my life is going. And even worse my former job is refusing to pay me the holiday pay they owe me, shouldn't be surprised they never paid me any in 8 years. I don't care that they are trying to ruin my life at the moment, and ensuring I never get a job, but I would like my holiday pay for this year, its nearly £500! Really need someone to talk to right now, might have to phone someone tonight as this is all getting to me. Sorry guys, I'm not great company at the moment, just ignore me.

Awww Vesper, we are all here if you need to talk, and good work on getting the house sorted. When will your relatives be over, could you maybe talk to them? Maybe it would be a good idea to post over on the employment and CAB boards about the holiday pay situation? The folks there are very good at giving appropriate advice, and tbh it doesn't sound as though your previous employers are acting legally. Perhaps with CAB or other support you could get what you're entitled to from them?

becca0417

Aww thanks girls but pmt symptoms started today. Just hope this cycle comes to an end before cd70. I've wasted so many tests too!!

Hugs to you vesper & qq am thinking of U x

vic3

amyloofoo wrote: »

I always thought they'd just say I haven't been off the pill for long enough and things will settle down Think it might be time to make that appointment now though. My cycles have varied from 21 days to 40-something days and I still haven't had a positive opk in any of them

Sorry for whinging, hope everyone's as well as can be expected and there's a load of BFPs brewing for the second half of this month...

Hi amy, it took a good 12 months for my cycle to settle down (still a little irregular) after coming off the pill. Just 5 months ago, I was having 55 day cycles!

Congrats on the BFP Anderson!

tinkwings

Congrats Anderson
Hugs Code
Welcome newbies
Huge Hugs QQ

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tinkwings

I am Very chuffed with myself today I finally made the last thing for our room we had a horrid headboard brown velet thing & I have transformed it so chuffed...

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TeamLowe

Ooh Tinks that's lovely although I do judge you for having the other one in the first place (btw, saw your bunting in FB and said 'Bertie?!?!?' out loud lol)

Massive hugs QQ, hope he's just having a man sulk and will open up in a few days x x x

Big hugs to the ladies with long cycles, I feel your pain

Huge hugs codemonkey and vesper, my motto at the minute seems to be 'these things are sent to try us' which helpfully sums things up without being useful or inspirational lol x x

clearing_out_my_pockets

QQuaver wrote: »

Like what?
What do people send their DH's when one gets an email saying don't bother to come back?:(

I do have a lot of time:o
I have an air ticket for end of Nov, but I can change the date.

It's almost like I've never married (married 3 years). I'm living in the same old place I've lived in when I was single, and have the same job.

I do need to get to DH's place to get my things one of these days though.

Sorry didn't mean to offend / upset. Normally if I fall out with DH I buy him a little something to remind him why he fell in love with me. Appreciate it may not be appropriate here. Xxx

Congratulations Anderson x

tinkwings

TeamLowe wrote: »

Ooh Tinks that's lovely although I do judge you for having the other one in the first place (btw, saw your bunting in FB and said 'Bertie?!?!?' out loud lol)

In my defence the brown one came with DH when he moved in to mine with his new bed. It was £4 from a white elephant stall that his mum runs at the summer fair each year.

I have always hated it but not fallen for a fabric until this one that fitted perfect with our new bedroom colour scheme :D:D

Thanks Bertie is the twin brother of Mila I am loving that design of washing line bunting :D:D

vesper

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TeamLowe wrote: »

Huge hugs codemonkey and vesper, my motto at the minute seems to be 'these things are sent to try us' which helpfully sums things up without being useful or inspirational lol x x

oh it's defintely very trying. Feeling better tonight after speaking to my Aunt. May still phone samaritans later as am feeling extremely down and hubby is out for the evening. This is all because I made a life changing mistake in the middle of this year, I did something I shouldn't have done, knew it at the time,but felt I had no choice. Now it's all blown up in my face and has wrecked my life.

Common sense tells me not to keep ttc while this situation is going on, which it will until xmas. Plus am having severe problems with depression, but my selfish self keeps saying to carry on, as a baby would be the best thing that could happen.