Trying for a Baby Part 8

QQuaver

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Q - as zippy said above, if you want to vent on here then we are all here to listen honey.

I know you are a very private person, but it's all very anonymous on here x

Thanks:o

DH is very hard person to talk to. He has always been like that.
He came from a broken home, and doesn't trust anyone.

We had a little quarrel (DH's in the wrong and he knows it), and we haven't talked for a month now.

He always tries to find some evidence that I don't love him, and seems he has found some while we haven't been talking (all a misunderstanding on his part).

We had similar quarrels before but this may have been the last straw for him.

TTC40

Is he talking to anyone else?

Are you hearing from others that he's OK?

robyn297

QQ, words can't express how sorry I am....like everyone here, I wish there was something I could do/say to make things easier. You're in my thoughts. X

QQuaver

In my defense, I've called him and sent emails to him every few days in the meantime:cool:

Now he says don't come back, ever:(

My sister thinks there's more misunderstandings that I haven't figured out yet. It could be that he thinks I decided not to return since we've stopped talking for a month.

I was scheduled to return to DH at the end of Nov, not beginning of Nov. My sister's telling me to remind him that, but I don't see what the difference it'll make now:huh:

loulou123

QQ - so sad to hear your news, big hug from me, hope you are getting support from those around you and that you can at least get the chance to speak to your husband.

Take care xx

QQuaver

TTC40 wrote: »

Is he talking to anyone else?

He doesn't talk much, but he works from Mon - Fri.

Are you hearing from others that he's OK?

I haven't asked, but his mum didn't say anything to my mum when she phoned yesterday.

Metranil_Vavin

Could he just be being a bit stressed and irrational?

It must be very hard for both of you conducting a relationship where you are so often apart.

QQuaver

loulou123 wrote: »

and that you can at least get the chance to speak to your husband.

Thanks, but no chance there. It's my one way emails at the moment:(

vesper

Oh QQ I am so sorry, I really really hope with all my heart that is just a misunderstanding.
You have been a true mentor and inspiration to many ladies on here. I can not even put into words how much you will be missed. You are our glue.

QQuaver

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Could he just be being a bit stressed and irrational?

He's on male menopause, so maybe.

It must be very hard for both of you conducting a relationship where you are so often apart.

I wish I could just fly over now, and hear his side of the story.
There's no my side of the story.

I can't though, I have work. If I throw away this job, then I may lose both my DH & my job:(