Trying for a Baby Part 8

time2deal

Evening all,

I've just spent hours clearing paperwork, and doing my self assessment - and the estimated tax PAYABLE is £4k!! Not happy... I'll have to have another look at it tomorrow and hopefully I have done something wrong. I knew I'd have to pay a bit - but not that much.

Thanks Angeltreats - you know no matter what we say to ourselves, you always still hope! I will let y'all know when I get the bright white non-line in the morning.

Hugs to all the CD1 ladies.

amyloofoo

time2deal wrote: »

Evening all,

I've just spent hours clearing paperwork, and doing my self assessment - and the estimated tax PAYABLE is £4k!! Not happy... I'll have to have another look at it tomorrow and hopefully I have done something wrong. I knew I'd have to pay a bit - but not that much.

Thanks Angeltreats - you know no matter what we say to ourselves, you always still hope! I will let y'all know when I get the bright white non-line in the morning.

Hugs to all the CD1 ladies.

:eek: at the tax - hope it's a mistake!

Good luck for tomorrow, fingers crossed for you

atton83

Morning all today is a long one. Make up trial just foundation i hope. Drop dress at shop see if it needs alterations. Find a petticoat. Try shoes. Leggings and bra on with it as well. Then go to docs as really itchy had to resolve to putting savlon on it. Then uni then home then start my assignment n then practice the first dance. No time to eat so i may b out for the count tomorrow.

Stupid toilet paper incident. Cough cough dried her out. She finally started producing cm again but its sore to wipe. Knickers full of white cm really itchy but using the loo stops the itching grrrr
So docs to have her take a look. No bd for 4 days im climbing the walls lol
Dont think it helped ok shaaved her but blade was blunt as that irritated her too
Sooooo much pain

Hugs to those that need it
Xxxxx

Metranil_Vavin

Looks like there's a lot of us in the early CD-gang. Hoping for lots of luck all round this month.

I had a couple of panic-attacks yesterday. One in a restaurant whilst having lunch with my family, and one in the car on our way home last night. I wasn't necessarily even thinking about what's happened recently, but think that the grief and stress of 2 consecutive months on the trot just spun me out.

Physically yesterday was hard too.

Feeling pretty horrible generally.

I rang my boss last night and explained what had happened. I didn't want to at all, but frankly the thought of going to work today/driving etc sent me into a further panic so I had to.

I'm at home today, we have a plumber in sorting out one of our radiators, so thankfully OH has the day off to deal with him as I just can't.

Hoping to get back to work tomorrow though, it's the busiest couple of weeks of the year so a really bad time to be off

Hope today goes well for you atton.

Birdie85

CD2 here. Hurts like a b!tch this month, feel like I've been kicked in the womb.

Hugs for TeamLowe for CD1 and the stupid woman on FB, hate it when people put things like that on there! We were shopping on Saturday and there was a little boy (about 3?) having a right good cry because he wanted a toy and we giggled because he looked so sorry for himself and was a really ugly cryer! We saw them again at the other end of the shop and he was still crying so we smiled and his Mum said to him, but the comment was clearly pointed at us, 'Oh, some people just don't understand what it's like to have a child until they've got one of their own!' !!!!!!?! Stupid bint, she had no idea if we had 4 kids at home or if we'd been trying to have one for the past year (oh yeah...) :mad: Felt like hunting her down and slapping her with a wet fish! That may have been the PMT talking though!

Hugs for CD1 QQ. How's about working on a bigger PMA list than that though?!

:eek: to the tax Time2deal! Hope you got your maths a bit wrong there!

Big hugs for Rum and Vesper, hope you're both feeling brighter this morning (although that's going to be difficult on a gloomy Monday!)

Hope you take some time to recover MV, things have been really rough for you recently.

Hopelass

Morning Ladies

Thanks QQ for the list :T

Time2deal - fingers crossed for tomorrow!! Let us know?
Atton - You are sounding very busy! Hugs for pain though......
Birdie85 - boo hiss to af pain, tell her to bu**ger off!!:D

MV - So sorry to hear you are feeling rough; panic attacks are AWFUL. Try and rest up today and not get too anxious if possible. We are all here for you :grouphug: sorry for the dodgy group hug!!

Hugs as well for all those on CD1 and angeltreats hope your cramps are easing

Have only read back the last page so will go and catch up in a mo.......
I'm on CD8 now. We did BD last night but I doubt that will result in anything being so early!!?!?! Going to go with the birthday ruse to get OH to BD nearer the w/e too!! Having said that have had crampy pains as well today like ov pains so not sure what is going on :undecided am not temping or opking so will just have to wait and see.

Hope everyone has a good Monday and big hugs to all that need them x

time2deal

Morning all,

I forgot this morning! And as it's quite early I don't think there is much worth in testing with non FMU. Will try again tomorrow.

Stupid really!

And I think the tax is right. Bl00dy work were undertaxing me. I knew I would owe a bit, but they messed up and so I have to pay it all in one go in January. Grrrr...

Metranil_Vavin

Has anybody here ever taken low dose aspirin whilst ttc?

tinkwings

MV - Hugs for the Panic attacks I keep having them too DH is getting really worried about them.

I just want to stop bleeding just feels like a constant reminder :mad:

Metranil_Vavin

I had an email this morning from a fertility clinic in Harley Street. An initial consultation is £295, with following recurrent mc screening £300 _pale_

I knew in the back of my mind that it would be pricey, but gosh that's a lot of money before you even get as far as any potential treatment.

Maybe I am jumping the gun a bit, and need to just soldier on for a bit. I think my initial reaction on Friday was just to do something

sorry you're still bleeding Tinks. I hope it stops very soon. I know what you mean about it being a constant reminder