Trying for a Baby Part 8

rumfeeble

I just had a complete meltdown. Bawling my eyes out over DH. We went to visit a friend of ours and she whispered to me that she was pregnant, she only did a test yesterday, i managed to squeek congratulations but it was sooooo hard. As soon as I got into the car i burst into tears. I know its a very wanted pregnancy and planned and they have been trying for 6 months, but I just felt so jealous. Then I hated myself for feeling that way and now I feel like I dont want to visit her and feel jealous of her bump.

I'm going to find some chocolate and watch a good chick flick.

vesper

Huge hugs Rumfeeble. I really know how you feel tonight. Hiding behind my computer so hubby doesn't see that I am crying.

Hubby's cousin is due tomorrow (some may remember that I said about her ages ago, as it felt like she was rubbing her pregnancy in), feels so sad as we had always said how wonderful it would be to be pregnant together.
And another friend is showing her 20week belly off on facebook tonight.

Toothfairy4

Hugs to vesper and rumfeeble.

Rum that mustve been really hard. Well done for congratulating your friend and i'm sure your DH didn't mind you having a good cry. Sometimes its needed! Hope it is your turn soon x

rumfeeble

Hubby thinks I'm a bit mental and doesn't quite know what to do with me! He is so laid back he just keeps saying relax it will happen when you stop stressing about it. Grrrr how on earth do you stop stressing about it? i can't seem to think of anything else

Toothfairy4

I know my husband would be the same. I am the panicker in the relationship and he is always calm. Good sometimes but irritating at others!!

rumfeeble

Vesper, just tell him how upset you're feeling, mine has been lovely and has made cups of tea for me all evening and let me have the pick of tv channels and my choice of dvd and he's really been trying to make me smile to cheer me up

vesper

Awwww that's really sweet of him Rumfeeble. Tears soon dried up when the ferrets decided that they wanted a climbing frame.

My husband doesn't really talk about his worries about us conceiving. He never worries about things, infact he is too laid back.

TeamLowe

Rumfeeble that's really sweet of him, my DH is the same and very relaxed about it all, keeps saying 'it'll be ok'and then. Ay how do you know and says 'ummm...' I even asked him this morning if he's concerned about the SA and he says he's not cos there's nothing he can do to change it. Right attitude I suppose...

Quick question, those who have used preseed or conceive plus, which would you recommend? X x

tinkwings

Conceive plus :-)

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CD2 here.......