Trying for a Baby Part 8

atton83

Evening all

Again ladies i am oh so sorry for my bad lapse in line with this forum

Currently stressed to the nines, hospital monday, really tired as not sleeping as fin uni work at 2 in the morning, the damn wedding is getting to me as we still haven't sorted out the first dance as oh cant dance for toffee, i have no time for myself,

Cause benefits have pushed me into this course at uni to keep benefits and cause i had to apply to sf all housing benefit have been stopped yet again, and i now get £7.00 a week for me and oh to live on, were apparently have to live off my student loan which comes in every three months and guess what i have £50 left out of my loan as i have had to pay all bills and backdate loads as people didn't get paid so yes im really not the best person to be around

on top of that i see me never being a mom even though i am having weird dreams due to Prometheus i hope , i find out im preggers at uni and have to quit as i find out when im 5 months gone :eek::eek:

why can't my life be easy and why can't i calm down, why am i not sleeping at the moment
falling asleep in my lessons at the uni is not good 25 mins in my lesson today

please someone tell me that this will get easier and that things will fall into place as so close to tears right now

QQuaver

Testing list

Tue 16th Oct - codemonkey



October graduates-Winner of September BFP predictions (5) Lilymay & mogwai:T


mogwai (32) TTC#1 since 02/12 BFP 03/10/12:j
*BigBird* (38) TTC#2 since 09/12 (1mc) BFP 05/10/12:j
Trina2010 (25) TTC#1 09/12 BFP 06/10/12:j
Teaandcupcakesplease (37) TTC#1 since 06/12 BFP 06/10/12:j
mrsj28 (30) TTC#1 since 11/11 (1mc) BFP 07/10/12:j


October BFP predictions

Birdie - 5
QQuaver - 6
lilymay - 6
Time2deal - 6
PommeVerte - 6
Elsie - 6
mogwai - 7
MV - 7
RazWaz - 7
Squirrels - 7
benhope - 7
good vibes - 8
Purcy - 8
abis - 9
amyloofoo - 9
mrsj28 - 10
claire16c - 11

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD48 TeamLowe - 20DPO :cool:
CD28 codemonkey - 13DPO :cool:
CD32 Birdie85* - 12DPO :cool:
CD24 RazWaz - 10DPO :cool:
CD26 Squ1rrel5 - 10DPO :cool:
CD23 PommeVerte - 10DPO :cool:
CD23 Metranil Vavin - 9DPO :cool:
CD36 Purcy81 - 9DPO :cool:
CD25 Lily_The_Legend - 9DPO :cool:
CD24 minimuffin12 - 9DPO :cool:
CD21 COMP - 8DPO :cool:
CD33 QQuaver*- 5DPO :cool:
CD28 maire - 4DPO :cool:
CD22 lilymay - 3DPO :cool:
CD16 time2deal - 2DPO :cool:
CD21 claire16c - 1DPO :cool:
CD18 good vibes - 0DPO :cool:
CD25 benhope - High CBFM :cool:

CD133 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD92 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD82 jellybean12 - Awaiting ov
CD71 fraz_babe - Awaiting ov
CD68 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov
CD65 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD59 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD54 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD45 Lilian1977 - Awaiting ov
CD39 Amus - Awaiting ov
CD36 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD35 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD32 becca0417 – Awaiting ov
CD31 Tealover – Awaiting ov
CD27 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD26 coops228 - Awaiting ov
CD26 lao_cat - Awaiting ov
CD26 Hopelass - Awaiting ov
CD24 Gemmzie - Awaiting ov
CD22 lao_cat - Awaiting ov
CD20 Angeltreats - Awaiting ov
CD16 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov
CD14 firefly369 - Awaiting ovo:o
CD14 apple*pie – Awaiting ov
CD12 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD12 JoJoB - Awaiting ov
CD9 Abis21 - Awaiting ov
CD8 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov
CD7 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov
CD7 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD6 atton83 - Awaiting ov
CD2 Elsie37 - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

I'm afraid I'll be away again
I've done the list for tomorrow above, and will be back on Sunday.

I'm expecting more BFPs while I'm gone:cool:

atton, things are always difficult at the beginning (((hugs))). It will all be worth it in the end of you can perservere and somehow get through this

atton83

QQ take it easy while ur away

I know your right but benefits pushed me into this course and now im being penalised. Im ill not an excuse but all this added strength is sooooo not helping

Plus you all know how it is when your tired everything gets to you

The dreams i think are whats hurting the most as its the one thing i want and cant have

I know ive already got enough stress in my life but i want kids b4 im barron and with my mom dyeing so young and then the fact i started my af at 71/2 makes me panick inro thinking i am gonna stop af v v v v early im so in a hmmmpppp mood

angeltreats

Just realised that I never guessed how many BFPs we'd have this month. Bit late now I know but it's turning into a really good month so I'm going to guess 9

QQ, when you're back and updating the thread I'm currently on 3 DPO, FF gave me a set of crosshairs this morning. Are you away for anything nice, or is it work?

Welcome to Ilovecake, I love your username!

Hugs to Elsie for AF and Atton83 for having a bit of a rough time, and anyone else in need of one.

All the talk of CM is making me giggle, if you told me a year ago I'd be discussing the productivity of our foofs with people on the internet I would have been horrified. And there is no way in hell I'd be able to tell DH about the existence of it, let alone show him some, he would run away screaming and I"d probably never see him again :rotfl:

claire16c

good_vibes wrote: »

LOL Claire
Good news for you teamlowe.
Welcome lovecakes.
Yay at last a smile on OPK, bit late for me in cycle. But have notice loads of EWCM last days ( dripping as some as the ladies say on here). Told OH and showed him now he showing more interest in the working of things. Bless him, he went straight on google and gave me a lesson on ovu ( didn't have the heart to tell him I already know these things).

hmm maybe I should show my dh next time. Hes not actually a squamish person but I just couldnt bring myself to tell him incase, and then it put him off bding or something! I dont think my DH is still clued up on the ov thing. Well at least in that I dont think he gets how rarely it happens even though Ive told him about 100 times

atton83 wrote: »

Evening all

Again ladies i am oh so sorry for my bad lapse in line with this forum

Currently stressed to the nines, hospital monday, really tired as not sleeping as fin uni work at 2 in the morning, the damn wedding is getting to me as we still haven't sorted out the first dance as oh cant dance for toffee, i have no time for myself,

Cause benefits have pushed me into this course at uni to keep benefits and cause i had to apply to sf all housing benefit have been stopped yet again, and i now get £7.00 a week for me and oh to live on, were apparently have to live off my student loan which comes in every three months and guess what i have £50 left out of my loan as i have had to pay all bills and backdate loads as people didn't get paid so yes im really not the best person to be around

on top of that i see me never being a mom even though i am having weird dreams due to Prometheus i hope , i find out im preggers at uni and have to quit as i find out when im 5 months gone :eek::eek:

why can't my life be easy and why can't i calm down, why am i not sleeping at the moment
falling asleep in my lessons at the uni is not good 25 mins in my lesson today

please someone tell me that this will get easier and that things will fall into place as so close to tears right now

I thought you wanted to go to uni?

Anyway dont worry about it. I think most people find uni hard when they first start. At least you get to go home at night and arent living with a bunch of almost strangers like everyone else will be, so take some comfort in that. I liked my course but the first few weeks until I made friends with someone, I hated it 90% of the time because I lived with a load of weirdos!!

angeltreats wrote: »

Just realised that I never guessed how many BFPs we'd have this month. Bit late now I know but it's turning into a really good month so I'm going to guess 9

QQ, when you're back and updating the thread I'm currently on 3 DPO, FF gave me a set of crosshairs this morning. Are you away for anything nice, or is it work?

Welcome to Ilovecake, I love your username!

Hugs to Elsie for AF and Atton83 for having a bit of a rough time, and anyone else in need of one.

All the talk of CM is making me giggle, if you told me a year ago I'd be discussing the productivity of our foofs with people on the internet I would have been horrified. And there is no way in hell I'd be able to tell DH about the existence of it, let alone show him some, he would run away screaming and I"d probably never see him again :rotfl:

:rotfl:Men are funny creatures aren't they.

Although perhaps in some ways we should be preparing them. Because if we get pg then there will be a lot worse than cm to deal with hehe!

I read an article a couple of years back about how women were now announcing their pregnancies online and posting pics of the tests online. I remember what wth, why would you do that? How weird. Now Im hoping to be doing that myself :rotfl:

teaandcupcakesplease

QQuaver wrote: »

Hello everyone, rainy down here:wave:
teacups, how are you? Any pg symptoms?:wave:

Hi QQ
I am fine thanks, dont have many signs in the way of symptoms. I have the odd dull ache in the right hand dide of my back but thats about it. If im honest it just doesnt seem real. I dont want this to sound like i'm an expert or gloating but last month we only BD a couple of times and i was much more relaxed about it. - i dont know if that helps any ladies here?

Cant thank you guys enough for the support!!! x

Metranil_Vavin

See you on Sunday Q :wave:

Currently waiting for a plumber to arrive to re hang our leaky shower door and replace the rotten plasterboard around it.

I geel really stressed out, I'm not a big fan of workmen in the house and it's even harder with a very mobile toddler rushing about.

Toothfairy4

Hi! QQ could you please add me to the front page list? Toothfairy4 (24) TTC#1 since 10/12
DH and I have just had our 1st wedding anniversary and have decided to go for it! I feel a mixture of scared and excited tbh eek! Been lurking for a while and absorbing lots of info from you ladies so i know the basics. Are there any books/websites any of you would advise i read? Off to get some folic acid today