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THE CHALLENGE OF A FUTURE WITHOUT Mr 3Dogs ..... but friends will make it possible

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  • kerri_gt
    kerri_gt Posts: 11,202 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear your Mam is not good 3Dogs, safe driving and big hugs. Thinking of you all xx
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  • The_Dragon
    The_Dragon Posts: 9,749 Forumite
    Hugs 3dogs
    Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for thou art crunchy and good with catsup :D
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  • boultdj
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    Hugs sent for all your family 3D.
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    edited 31 March 2013 at 11:31AM
    Bad news, Mam didn't make it through the night :( My sister was sitting with her and Mam passed away peacefully just after 3am. My sister stayed while they changed Mam into a nice fresh nightdress and tidied her up and then rang her hubbie to drive her home. As we said, Mam is out of any suffering now and is at peace

    At 93, Mam has had a good innings considering the fact that she has been in and out of hospital most of her life. She was born 5th Sept 1919, the smaller of twins. At less than 2lb weight, she survived whereas her bigger brother died at birth. So she was a fighter from the start it seems. She had TB when 16 or 18 and has always had a very weak chest, which she passed on to my sister and I in our asthma. I can always remember her having to go into hospital regularly over the years for her asthma. Later she developed angina too, and she had very bad arthritis with her hands and feet badly twisted and painful. But there you are, she got to 93 and it was only in the last 4 or 5 years that the dementia got to her and she was only diagnosed with altziemers 3 1/2 years ago, so she was able to see and enjoy her great-granddaughters grow up to age 7 & 11. And she did so love to see them :j Greatest loss was the death of her only grandson when he was only 21, knocked down and killed by a train, 18 years ago next week, so she doted on her only granddaughter, and, as I said, her two girls. The joy of her life and what kept her going, we think. They will miss her dreadfully and it will be hard as they lost their other great-grandma 15 months ago to cancer, their Uncle Alan Mr 3Dogs last year and now this, poor girls, but they now understand the cycle of life and death :(

    I will take it easy today, have lunch here as Andy is doing a lovely roast beef dinner (free DTD beef from Tosco of course) and drive home later, about tea-time. Then drive up North tomorrow. I know there is no rush now, but my sister needs me and I will be there for her, and my brother too
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • Aesop
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    My sincerest condolences to you , your sister and brother 3Dogs.

    Biggest, biggest squidgiest hugs to you all hun xxxx

    be kind to yourself.

    And here's a toast to Mam3Dogs :beer: who made it to 93. xxx
  • boultdj
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    Sorry to hear the news of your Mum, [hugs] to all the family.
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  • MatyMoo
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    So sorry to hear about your Mam, but after a start like that and the health problems along the way how wonderful that she got to 93.

    I think anyone that lived through either of the world wars was far hardier and more determined than we will ever be.

    Hugs to you and your family at this horrid time.
    :j Proud Member of Mike's Mob :j
  • kerri_gt
    kerri_gt Posts: 11,202 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear about your Mam 3Dogs, she sounds like a wonderful, determined woman - looks like she passed those genes on in abundance. Take care of yourself, and love and hugs to you and your family xx
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  • so sorry for your loss susan x
  • beanielou
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    So sorry to hear the latest news :( xxx
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