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Is she pregnant?

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  • andyarran
    andyarran Posts: 22 Forumite
    My only thought as to why she hasn't said anything is due to the fact someone i know said she's probably not wanting to say anything until after 12 weeks because anything can happen and she is generally a very private person.
  • ymakesmile
    ymakesmile Posts: 505 Forumite
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    andyarran wrote: »
    My only thought as to why she hasn't said anything is due to the fact someone i know said she's probably not wanting to say anything until after 12 weeks because anything can happen and she is generally a very private person.

    Even to you? Her partner? I am baffled...
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    You say you arent teenagers, well your certainly acting like one,

    You should be talking to her, not us.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • stsarina
    stsarina Posts: 263 Forumite
    You can't buy 5mg folic acid. Supermarkets and chemists sell 400mcg, but 5mg needs to be prescribed - I know, I'm on it. OP, TALK TO HER. Doctors don't prescribe it for no reason, so if she is pregnant she needs your support.
    Team Pink! Baby girl due 25/5/14
  • go_cat
    go_cat Posts: 2,509 Forumite
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    andyarran wrote: »
    My only thought as to why she hasn't said anything is due to the fact someone i know said she's probably not wanting to say anything until after 12 weeks because anything can happen and she is generally a very private person.

    Most supermarkets are 24hr today due to Olympic deregulation so go and get her a pregnancy test, this will speak more than words
  • moneypuddle
    moneypuddle Posts: 936 Forumite
    andyarran wrote: »
    My only thought as to why she hasn't said anything is due to the fact someone i know said she's probably not wanting to say anything until after 12 weeks because anything can happen and she is generally a very private person.


    Waiting to tell until 12 week is usually what you'd do with friends and family, not your partner. That seems very odd.
  • Any
    Any Posts: 7,959 Forumite
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    The only bizzare thing On here is you OP.
    If you can't see why she doesn't want to tell you after you said you don't want a kid..then I am lost for words.
    The 12 wks thing might play a part in it.
    If you can't go and talk to her after so many signs 'in case you look like an idiot' then I doubt you are not teenagers ! You certainly behave like one!
    As for 'I pay taxes' .....jeeez... Are you 12?
    She needs you!! You are partners!!
    You won't look like idiot, you will look like caring partner.
  • Lozzy88
    Lozzy88 Posts: 780 Forumite
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    So have you asked her yet? :D
  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    andyarran wrote: »
    My only thought as to why she hasn't said anything is due to the fact someone i know said she's probably not wanting to say anything until after 12 weeks because anything can happen and she is generally a very private person.

    So have you been talking about this to somebody else? And then you come to an internet forum? It should be her you're talking to fgs!
    And you live together, you have unprotected sex together and she could be carrying your child. Surely she can't be that private?
    You two need to talk. From what you've said your relationship needs a lot of work in the communication department
  • ali-t
    ali-t Posts: 3,815 Forumite
    c'mon the suspense is killing me....
    If you always do what you have always done, you will always get what you always got!
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