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Is she pregnant?
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or you could play it clever and start talking about babies, and children, and your future together and how happy you are with her and you now think you would love to be the father of her children...
It might just be that she's scared to death. Scared of losing you, scared of having the baby, scared of what will happen if you don't change your mind.Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
Janice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
Tell her you've changed your mind and are feeling a bit broody and ask if you can have a talk about starting a family. She may be keeping it quiet as she's a bit worried about your response to the news0
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Is she at home now...if so get off this forum and talk to her...:D0
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X posted with Valli
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Yes i said i didn't want a kid at the moment but i guess we are at that age where its happening or never happening. To be fair i guess we both wanted it but never admitted to it. I didn't in a vein sort of way.
Then it sounds as though you and your girlfriend need a grown-up discussion about what to do next.I just want to know if her symptoms lean towards her being pregnant. If so then good, i can ask her and we can sort things out. If not then i can broach it differently.
It doesn't matter if she is or she isn't - if she's acting abnormally then you should be able to ask her what the matter is. Good communication is the lynch pin of any relationship.Feels good to pay £600 income tax a month to be sinned upon.
Oh please don't pay tax into it....I could only dream of having to pay a mere £600 a month in tax. Opinions aren't determined by amount of tax paid and it's not relevant to the discussion in any way at all is it.“Don't do it! Stay away from your potential. You'll mess it up, it's potential, leave it. Anyway, it's like your bank balance - you always have a lot less than you think.”
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I can't bear the stress of not knowing!
OP, is she pregnant or not?I'm not that way reclined
Jewelry? Seriously? Sheldon you are the most shallow, self-centered person I have ever met. Do you really think that another transparently-manipu... OH, IT'S A TIARA! A tiara; I have a tiara! Put it on me! Put it on me! Put it on me! Put it on me! Put it on me! Put it on me! Put it on me!0 -
having a kid would be an amazing thing for us both
why dont tell her thatI am not an expert I am self taught i have no legal training any information I post is based on my own personal experience and information gained from other web sites
If you are in any doubt please seek legal/expert advice help0 -
Let's hope the OP is having a heart to heart with his girlfriend and we have a new member to the 12 weeks and under pregnancy thread
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I'm confused why she hasn't said anything yet. I wonder if the folic acid is a 'hint' and she's making it all obvious and simple for a man to understand

You could innocently ask what the folic acid is for and this might give her a nudge or she might still cover it up, as to why I don't know but don't be confrontational and scare her
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If you are having unprotected sex on a regular basis, then a pound to a penny she is pregnant!0
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