MSE Pregnancy Club 25

KatyLiz

Sorry Rups! I think we both like to torture each other with all the food talk lol!

That's a pain morocha, hope you find somewhere soon. When we were in private rental we ended up having to move every 6 months to a year and it can be so inconvenient.

Rups32

lol. ok will stop if you do. nah i just write about what bad stuff i have had or how ravenous i am.. the baby makes me hungry all the time (or am i blaming the wrong person here). hehe....

renting is always a pain. was glad when we both just saved up hard core and got ourselves our house. not in the ideal place - croydon but cheaper than most so am happy. good luck morocha. once you find something, the time will fly by and before you know it you have moved in :0)

MissMonkeyMoo

Twinklie big hugs to you hun, I know exactly how you feel. I have been in tears for the past three days now; have had horrendous nights sleep as I keep waking up every hour or so and can't always drop back off. I can't get comfy if I lie down, I can't get comfy if I sit up, I can't get comfy if I stand up or walk around. My head is constantly fuzzy, i have heartburn and feel sick; I have lost my appetite but know that I have to eat still. But everytime I do eat I feel worse. I can't drink anything except water. I have had constant period type pains for the last few days and having looked on the net it looked like all of this was pointing towards labour starting and baby making an appearance but NOTHING! I am so fed up and to be honest I am not coping at all. Have just been on the phone to the midwife and whilst she was lovely and very sympathetic she just said that it's just the way things are when you are overdue and you have to pretty much grin and bear it.

Added to that is the fact that my OH is swinging between being very supportive and attentive and then narky and having a go. He is cooking a curry for himself tonight and has said about five times that I should have one - I have told him how bad my stomach feels and that a curry would just aggrevate it but he just keeps saying that he would have thought I would try anything to being on labour! He's also been getting stroppy yesterday and today cos he has had to do the washing and drying up - it's no more than what I usually do on a daily basis but because HE has had to do it for a change it is the end of the world.

Sorry for the rant and misery - this is the whole reason I have not been coming on here for the last few days cos I didn't want to bring anyone else down. I have to say though, it's probably worth thinking to yourselves that you won't be giving birth until two weeks after your due date! I really thought that I was going to be early and now that I have gone over I just really don't know what to do. Realistically I know that baby will be here by the week after next but I'm not sure I can get through the next hour let alone the next seven days!

Going to go and look at changing bags and try and distract myself for a bit. Labour vibes to all that need and want them, hugs to everyone else. Sorry for the self pitying post.

morocha

No hun. no buying here, we just looking for a long let, when we moved to this property we knew it was not long let but we really needed to move out, couldnt live with my in laws any longer with DD... We live in Wales.

Rups32

MMM big hugs to you.. xxxx twinklie hope you are ok too hon..

mmm you know you can always come on here and chat as even though we are not face to face we are still 'listening' and can try and help.. hugs xxx DHs and Ohs go through phases i think. they dont get us and we dont get them. sometimes when dh upsets me and is being a right dog, i get so upset but now i am instantly settng up a mechanism inside me where i am calming myself and just thinking of me and baby otherwise i get so upset. men really have no idea. my dh keeps saying he is supportive and i say yes physically he may be but when he gets tired and also sees me emotional he cant cope and gets nasty. i never get sympathy if i say i am in pain. he just says take it easy. thats it done! today i just said omg i am going to be 26 weeks tomorrow and before i know we will be 30 weeks. i saidi was nervous. all he said was ok cool. idiot!!!

sorry dont mean to start my own rant, but we are here for each other and we understand each other. it is true that only women get women. lol. sorry though sweety and i hope you feel better soon. xxx

Rups32

ah hon in that case you def will find somehting quicker esp if renting. i wish i f you were closer, i would have tried to help as moving is such a pain.

morocha

Missmoo, so sorry your DH is not being supportive, men really do not undestand what we go through when pregnant. Lots of hugs xxx

Thanks rups, you're sweet

KatyLiz

Oh huge hugs MMM. You won't be bringing everyone down by posting, and hopefully getting it all out might help a bit. I don't have any real advice having never been overdue, but sending massive labour vibes your way and really hoping your little one comes soon.

MummyOfTwo

mmmmmmmfoooooooooooooooooooood chatter......

Rups32

i know... i have had to make some toast as dinner was nothing for me. im going to get so fat.