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Partner problems- stolen money

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  • heartbreak_star
    heartbreak_star Posts: 8,287 Forumite
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    Just out of interest, he didn't "get her pregnant", this act generally takes two people.

    Just sayin' :)

    HBS x
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  • meer53
    meer53 Posts: 10,217 Forumite
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    Not sure why you quoted my post all I said was he had a duty to help her with the birth which he does...

    First he said the social services rehoused the ex then he said council, no ones having a go at him...

    I suggest you find your glasses and read my posts properly..

    My apologies, the post i should have quoted was Raven83's. I think you quoted them, then i picked up your post in error. x
  • barbarawright
    barbarawright Posts: 1,846 Forumite
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    "I've run up a lot of debts without my partner's knowledge. I'm completely desparate and feel totally ashemed. When I told him about it, he accused me of stealing and threw me out with my two children (another on the way). What can I do?'.

    I am extremely sympathetic to the OP but I suspect people might not condemn the partner so much if we knew her side of the story,
  • Errata
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    At least thhe OP will be able to keep an eye on things as his wife and chidren appear to be living quite close to him: he posted he was going to drop some clothes off and 40 minutes later he had dropped them off and was back home posting that he'd done so.
    It will be good for the kids if the council flat is also just round the corner from where dad lives; they'll be able to see a lot of him.
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  • Errata wrote: »
    At least thhe OP will be able to keep an eye on things as his wife and chidren appear to be living quite close to him: he posted he was going to drop some clothes off and 40 minutes later he had dropped them off and was back home posting that he'd done so.
    It will be good for the kids if the council flat is also just round the corner from where dad lives; they'll be able to see a lot of him.

    and that was without having their address :D
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    I'm sure I've read a very similar story on here before.

    Not about the split and housing situ, but the situation beforehand, ie Mother drinking and frittering money away and not all biological children to the OP etc.
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  • Ellejmorgan
    Ellejmorgan Posts: 1,487 Forumite
    edited 7 July 2012 at 9:19PM
    meer53 wrote: »
    My apologies, the post i should have quoted was Raven83's. I think you quoted them, then i picked up your post in error. x


    Fair enough thank you for apologising...


    OP what happened when you took the clothes over ?
    What got said ??
    I always take the moral high ground, it's lovely up here...
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