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One of my workers is pregnant for my best friends fella.

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  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    And do make sure you tell your employee tomorrow. She deserves the truth as well.
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  • carolineb23
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    What a terrible situation, I feel so sorry for these women and the innocent little babies. You are being a good friend by doing this, as heartbreaking as it may be to do it, much better than hiding away from it. Good luck.
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    FBaby wrote: »
    Does this mean she went out without her mobile? How did she get your message? do take into consideration that she might have called him to say she was stopping by your place and he's already told her lies.

    The OP rang her friend's mother, which is where her friend happened to be.
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  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    yvonne13 wrote: »
    That is what I am planning to do, she should be here soon so my fingers are crossed that she doesn't take out her anger on me.
    Please do not do that. Remember that two children at least are caught up in this mess.

    I think it needs everybody to tell the truth and act like adults. If your friend wants more proof then talk to your employee and then between them they can decide if they wish to talk.

    Also as an employer make sure you have covered her next few shifts, I can not see her being up to working with you. No fault of yours I realise.

    I wish you all the best of luck x
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  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Please do not do that. Remember that two children at least are caught up in this mess.

    I think it needs everybody to tell the truth and act like adults. If your friend wants more proof then talk to your employee and then between them they can decide if they wish to talk.

    Also as an employer make sure you have covered her next few shifts, I can not see her being up to working with you. No fault of yours I realise.

    I wish you all the best of luck x

    Yes I am not so sure that is a good idea either.

    He may know she is with you and say he does not know what you are talking about.
  • Sequeena
    Sequeena Posts: 4,728 Forumite
    What an awful situation. Good luck x
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  • Saint_Chris
    Saint_Chris Posts: 3,876 Forumite
    I do hope all is going ok for you,

    what a sad situation
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    I would only revert to calling him if she doesnt believe you. I wouldnt start with that.
  • iluvfreebies
    iluvfreebies Posts: 812 Forumite
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    oh what a swine - and an awful position for you op - of all the woman in the world eh :) i hope ure friend is ok
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  • pawsies
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    Good luck op!
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