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  • Thanks Natty, walk complete...... logbasket filled, oven on........ time to go and pamper me thinks.......................................................

    TTFN xx
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
  • Morning... the morning after the night before..... and i have been eatenout of house and home!!! No left overs and the OH binned the chicken carcase that was going to be soup. Grrr!!
    Meal planning shifting as a result, bonus is the bacon is now my sandwich for work tomorrow. Going to be hard going back, especially knowing that i am going to be leaving.
    Just put the dishwasher on for the 2nd time, and notices that OH's "helping hand" in clearing up has put a black scratch on my white sink - bleached it and hopefully it will lift itout.
    jobs for today....
    sandwiches for tomorrow
    update my list for shoping next week - no potatoes at all left!
    change our bed
    clothes out for work
    empty dishwasher
    put protective matt over the table


    on a funny note my shred and snobbish husband ( he had never bought reduced/ haggled / thought do i need this before he met me), threw a tantrum that we were using our "every day plates", they were given to us via the charity shop, but do the job. to which he got told to grow up.
    Awaiting my sister gettinga house and then i can cast them off to her, and but some matching sets - after all the wedding nes are far to good to use for everyday!!!

    Off to do some surveys and catch up on bits!! TTFN xx
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
  • Oh, sorry me again - i put this to you ...


    When you go for a meal at someones house , is it manners to take a token gift be it flowers/ wine/ chocs.....................................

    We have had two seperate un connected sets of friends over in recent months , and no one brings anything with them..... yet i was always told to take something..............................

    I look forward to hearing what you guys think??!!
    xx
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    Oh, sorry me again - i put this to you ...


    When you go for a meal at someones house , is it manners to take a token gift be it flowers/ wine/ chocs.....................................

    We have had two seperate un connected sets of friends over in recent months , and no one brings anything with them..... yet i was always told to take something..............................

    I look forward to hearing what you guys think??!!
    xx
    I always take something, how rude :mad:.
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • I agree with GG - how rude :mad:

    I wouldn't dream of going without taking a hostess gift
    Mortgage at highest (April 2008): ~£195,000
    Mortgage-free: January 2021
    Retired: June 2022 (186 months early!)
  • morning..... just gearing up to go back to work.... woud usually be there by now .... feeling little bit nervous. things went bit manic and our nds ended up with £13 spend on takeout tea. i was watching tv n our best mate turned up , his gf had dumped him he had chuckedd all his clothes in his car. me being me, stop for tea, stay over if you want, do you have any washing????
    i am soft!!!oh has taken him with him to work (as friend is n shifts) to try and distract him. therefore i am shattered................................................... and ended up giving up my lunch to him -not that i mind.

    right i hoooooooooooooo, i hoooooooooooooooooo, i hoo i ho its off to work should go........

    ttfn xx
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
  • Looks like i've got me a lodger..... tea at ours, i've made him a butty for tomorrows lunch with the OH....
    first day bk went well, nothing ever changes..... need to get a start date for new job.
    Run out of logs AGAIN, so minimalist burning atm until oG and his playmate arrive for tea!! I put the heating on then thought, why??!!

    Right tea time.
    ttfn xx
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Oh, sorry me again - i put this to you ...

    When you go for a meal at someones house , is it manners to take a token gift be it flowers/ wine/ chocs........................

    We have had two seperate un connected sets of friends over in recent months , and no one brings anything with them..... yet i was always told to take something........................

    I look forward to hearing what you guys think??!!
    xx
    Normally I would even if it's just a bottle of wine. But recently I've invited friends to come round to mine for dinner instead.

    Is your new job with the same company?
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • lulabelle1
    lulabelle1 Posts: 2,704 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi there.... I always take a gift - either a bottle of wine, dessert or both! Just don't invite them round again!

    Did you get your start date and salary confirmed at the new job? Hopefully you haven't handed your notice in yet, just in case......
  • Thanks Peonie and lula, I think i might do the trick back and tehn just not invite them back round!

    I am officially shattered. Day two, and getting back into swing. Off tomoz afternoon to see my friend who's dad died recently , just for a brew as he is gutted .

    Went to TK max on way home gota nica bag cross body 19.99 - as my new job will need it as need to have my witts about me!!

    THE NEW JOB..... emailed and still no response - same company , different department , but to undergo lots of checks prior to commencement - which i knew - but just getting frustrated.
    I had also kept it under wraps at work, but then one of the HOS shouted out "Congratulations on the job".... the room went silent and i muttered - its not common knowledge.... needless o say every manand his dog knows now!!!!
    Dec 2011 £141,000 / dec 2013 £135,000/ Jan 2014 £131,000 / July 2014 £129 000
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